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I hear some guys say (paraphrasing)
"It's not just about the looks you know, the personality is equally, if not more important than the looks" "A girl with an ugly personality is a huge turn off" <-- Is this really so?
Okay I'll elaborate.
I feel that a lot of men could actually put up with a HOT girl's 'rotten apple' behaviour; men could be far more tolerant to a v.attractive woman's behaviour. Her looks could be the sole reason to why you're together.

Example? Okay this woman.
http://www.vanityfair.com/images/cul...photos0812.jpg

If she doesn't tickle your fancy. Picture yourself dating the most attractive looking celebrity/girl in your eyes. Let's say she was a real *****/wet fish and you couldn't stand her, would the fact that you'll be tapping her every night be a good reason to stay with her?

I may just be talking out of my arse. I'm just curious.
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for a while i'd tolerate it but i would know its not going anywhere so probably end it after a while and than have make up sex
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Personally personality (..that made me smile..I'm tired) is crucial and so no even if they were the most attractive women I'd ever met, if they were horrible person I wouldn't want to because I just wouldn't like them.
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(Original post by T-Toe)
I hear some guys say (paraphrasing)
"It's not just about the looks you know, the personality is equally, if not more important than the looks" "A girl with an ugly personality is a huge turn off" <-- Is this really so?
Or, do guys just say what we think a woman wants to hear? That'd be a pretty obvious point at which we (guys) could start, no?
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I'll agree that more allowences are made if they are very god looking, but the novilty of an extremely good looking girlfriend with a bad personality means the relationship is unlikely to last long. Notice I said allowences can be made, there is a limit. I would never be with someone I really didn't like the personality of, no matter how attractive they were.
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Yes there's no doubt about that. But even if the tolerance is longer it wont be by that much.
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You already know the answer, as evidenced by your whole OP.

Let's be honest, guys only say that on TSR because they know they have no chance to "acquire the goods" and so attack her personality out of anger that she'll get it easy in life. Those who do believe they have a chance to "acquire the goods" attempt to earn their white knighthood.

In real life, that all goes out the window.

Because they can acquire the goods.
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Usually less tolerance really. I'd end up just assuming she falls into the prickish *****ish stereotype. It's not good, but it's just natural to believe in stereotypes.
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Yes they look real


wait what was the question?
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After Big Brother, Danielle Lloyd lost some of her magazine work. Editors of Nuts, Zoo and FHM obviously felt readers would be unhappy masturbating over images of a racist.
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Actually, I'm usually a bit of an ars3hole to "hot" girls, cause I imagine they have been having an easy time so I feel like I have to balance it out a bit
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(Original post by JamesBlood)
After Big Brother, Danielle Lloyd lost some of her magazine work. Editors of Nuts, Zoo and FHM obviously felt readers would be unhappy masturbating over images of a racist.
I'm not sure if this is relevant to the OP?
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Girlfriend - I'd have to get rid if she was doing my head in tbh.

probably more tolerance in the 'getting to know you' phase though.

from the title I thought this was going to be about things like chuggers or other street pesterers - cos tbh I'll talk to an attractive female chugger but ruthlessly cockblock any males coming at me with a clipboard.
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I stared at that picture way too long.
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(Original post by T-Toe)
I hear some guys say (paraphrasing)
"It's not just about the looks you know, the personality is equally, if not more important than the looks" "A girl with an ugly personality is a huge turn off" <-- Is this really so?
Okay I'll elaborate.
I feel that a lot of men could actually put up with a HOT girl's 'rotten apple' behaviour; men could be far more tolerant to a v.attractive woman's behaviour. Her looks could be the sole reason to why you're together.

Example? Okay this woman.
http://www.vanityfair.com/images/cul...photos0812.jpg

If she doesn't tickle your fancy. Picture yourself dating the most attractive looking celebrity/girl in your eyes. Let's say she was a real ***** and you couldn't stand her, would the fact that you'll be tapping her every night be a good reason to stay the her?

I may just be talking out of my own arse. I'm just curious.
ashley cole might answer that
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If she is really hot I have no limits. Until I get bored of doing her of course.
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(Original post by Luceria)
I stared at that picture way too long.
Haha

You're funny

Potter fan

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(Original post by T-Toe)
Haha

You're funny

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Tehe
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(Original post by T-Toe)
I'm not sure if this is relevant to the OP?
Danielle Lloyd is aesthetically pleasing.
Racism is a bad personality trait.
Editors of magazines felt that racists would put men off buying their magazines, which are essentially softcore porn. If they were right, then personality is just as important as looks. Pretty racists and non-racist munters are equivalent to magazine editors. I think this is very relevant.
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As other people have said, sure looks matter to a degree but they won't last forever.

If someone is a real ***** with no personality whatsoever, I wouldn't tolerate her any longer no matter how hot she is. :tea:
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