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Im going out 2night - with a mate of mine and ma bfs mates. ma bf promised me 2 weeks ago that he wud come with me n my mate as there are about 3 - 6 mates of his that might be going (and go home with them, so that he gives us equal attention lol)

anyway, this mornin he turns round and says "sorry but i cant really go with u. i havent had chance to arrnage it (haha over a week!) and i can't really ditch my brother and my mates. A-hem. i am sure that this is ditchin me, and especially the mornin of the day he said he wud come that 2 weeks ago!

he doesnt even seem bothered! yes this is pathetic but im sick of all the broken promises and the saying he will do something for me and then doesn't do it.

grrrrrrrrrrr
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(Original post by lumpycustard)
Im going out 2night - with a mate of mine and ma bfs mates. ma bf promised me 2 weeks ago that he wud come with me n my mate as there are about 3 - 6 mates of his that might be going (and go home with them, so that he gives us equal attention lol)

anyway, this mornin he turns round and says "sorry but i cant really go with u. i havent had chance to arrnage it (haha over a week!) and i can't really ditch my brother and my mates. A-hem. i am sure that this is ditchin me, and especially the mornin of the day he said he wud come that 2 weeks ago!

he doesnt even seem bothered! yes this is pathetic but im sick of all the broken promises and the saying he will do something for me and then doesn't do it.

grrrrrrrrrrr
erm, yeah id be a bit annoyed lol, hes had 2 weeks to arrange it. But id do the whole "Im not bothered" thing when blatently i am. Erm, but yeah I would be annoyed, but also...i dunno, try and see it from his point of view??
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Maybe he has more important things to do?
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Maybe he has more important things to do?
maybe so, but he said h would go out with her 2 weeks ago...couldnt whatever he had to do wait unless he had a big explantion for it, in which case he would have explained this to her already and it wuda been fine.
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erm, yeah id be a bit annoyed lol, hes had 2 weeks to arrange it. But id do the whole "Im not bothered" thing when blatently i am. Erm, but yeah I would be annoyed, but also...i dunno, try and see it from his point of view??
his point of view being? leavin me to go wit his mates who can get there fine on his own and dont really need him both ways? i wil act like im not btohered but that wud just make him 4get it and tlak bout somethin else wil im still anooyed. grrrrr

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Maybe he has more important things to do?
more important? like what? he is stil comin out with us! just wud wrather ditch me than keep to his promise.
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more important? like what? he is stil comin out with us! just wud wrather ditch me than keep to his promise.
You know how disorganised we men can be - you should have reminded him about it constantly.
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You know how disorganised we men can be - you should have reminded him about it constantly.
or slapped him until he can repeat it on demand... :rolleyes:


yeah, that would be annoying, but if he's still going out with al of you, i dont see the problem? or ahve i misread somehting?
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You know how disorganised we men can be - you should have reminded him about it constantly.
Thats no excuse, you should be more organised, and he promised aswell.
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or slapped him until he can repeat it on demand... :rolleyes:

yeah, that would be annoying, but if he's still going out with al of you, i dont see the problem? or ahve i misread somehting?
Probably. *tsk* women.
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Thats no excuse, you should be more organised, and he promised aswell.
On behalf of my gender, I apologise.
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or slapped him until he can repeat it on demand... :rolleyes:


yeah, that would be annoying, but if he's still going out with al of you, i dont see the problem? or ahve i misread somehting?
I think hes not going...? and leaving her to go with his mates...?
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On behalf of my gender, I apologise.
Oh why thankyou, apology accepted (for the time being) But you should be more organised and think. Do you have any idea what your gender put us through huh???!!
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Oh why thankyou, apology accepted (for the time being) But you should be more organised and think. Do you have any idea what your gender put us through huh???!!
Eep, sorry! We're just not as organised as you - sometimes we just don't understand what you want. You seem to assume that we can read minds and just know what you want.
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You know how disorganised we men can be - you should have reminded him about it constantly.
i did! everyday! and the last night he promised for the 4th time.

Kita - hes still goin but hes ditched me to get there with his maets after promising 5 times on different days he wil come with me
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i did! everyday! and the last night he promised for the 4th time.

Kita - hes still goin but hes ditched me to get there with his maets after promising 5 times on different days he wil come with me
oh my god. im sorry i misunderstood. Be annoyed, be very annoyed. he didnt PROMISE just ONCE but hes PROMISED 5 times, all on different days - not even like hes gone "i promise i promise i promise i promise i promise" in one sentence (if you know what i mean) which would be counted as 5, but he has promised 5 times on different occasions.

beat him. (this all made sense when i was typing it...not so sure if it does now lol)
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is it THAT big a deal? it's just one night out? sorry to be insensitive, and he should have told you sooner, but it's not THAT bad... :confused:
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oh my god. im sorry i misunderstood. Be annoyed, be very annoyed. he didnt PROMISE just ONCE but hes PROMISED 5 times, all on different days - not even like hes gone "i promise i promise i promise i promise i promise" in one sentence (if you know what i mean) which would be counted as 5, but he has promised 5 times on different occasions.

beat him. (this all made sense when i was typing it...not so sure if it does now lol)
he just goes "sorry but its not my fault" when i told him it was unfair.

what shall i say to him to make him realise? he also promised ot write me a nice letter as wev gone thru a bad patch recently, and guess what "he forgot" so he said. he reckons he fell asleep evn tho i was txin him in bed for 2 hours.
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is it THAT big a deal? it's just one night out? sorry to be insensitive, and he should have told you sooner, but it's not THAT bad... :confused:
just bein dicthed, a sorry i love u, it wqont happene again might have been nice. instead "sorry but its not MY fault" yeh it is boY!!!!!!!!!
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louise will u read ur messages!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !
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just bein dicthed, a sorry i love u, it wqont happene again might have been nice. instead "sorry but its not MY fault" yeh it is boY!!!!!!!!!
i sense a rant coming on...

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