Just thought I'd post this as a kind of response to a thread I'd seen about your other half's ex's being ugly.
So, if your partner has an ex who is very good looking, and you are average/less/ in my case, "unusual looking", do you think your partner can ever be more/as attracted to you as they were the other person?
My boyfriend's best friend always talks about how hot my boyfriend's ex is, and I do often find myself thinking about what my boyfriend thinks. I am confident that nothing is going on between them, mainly because she is in a very serious relationship, but I do wonder if it was down to looks alone whether he'd rather be "with" her if you catch my drift... And as a kind of follow-up question, if it is that they are not as physically attracted to you as they were to an ex, or if they weren't physically attracted to you when you first met, how much do you think it matters?
If your other half's ex is better looking than you, can you ever match up? Watch
- Thread Starter
- 29-12-2010 15:27
- 29-12-2010 15:31
you're boyfriend is with you because he finds you attractive (amongst other things).
if he would rather be with her, he would be.
it's also up to him as to how attractive he finds you both, not anybody else. everyone has different tastes!
anyway, its not important and certainly not helpful to think about this stuff in a relationship.Last edited by didgeridoo12uk; 29-12-2010 at 15:32.
- 29-12-2010 16:16
It's cool becauase...I'll never have that problem
- 29-12-2010 16:32
- 29-12-2010 16:35
he must find you attractive if he's with you
- 29-12-2010 16:40