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    Ok before anyone says it.
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    but a girl is saying she slept with my boyfriend and at first I thought she was lying but now I'm not so sure. These are the messages sent today. I know it's hard to tell by text, but does it sound like she's telling the truth? She has a reputation as being a bit of a liar, which is why I didn't believe her at first. I edited out the stuff that doesn't really seem important.

    Her: He cheated on you at download with me and more recently with someone else. I still have the texts in my old phone if you want proof. Also, I'm in a good relationship now so it must be **** stiring with old news unless it was about a drunken call a few weeks ago but that was me telling him what a **** he was and that I don't care anymore

    Me: Well I just don't see where the situation would come up that I could look through your phone. I'm not out in Glasgow much.

    Her: Fair enough, it's all there If you change your mind. But this may help, at download he had a flower ring of yours then he came home early and broke up with you, or at least told me he did, and was inviting me to stay at the flat. If he hadn't been with me at download how would I know about the ring?! Also, when he was blanking your calls it's cause I was there.

    Me: He never blanked my calls at download, there was twice I couldn't get through to him because of the signal and my flatmate couldn't get through to her boyfriend either. I don't know how you know about the ring. If what you're saying is true, I don't understand your concern and why you want to convince me you're telling the truth.
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    ask (talk to) your boyfrirend. stop talking to her
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    I have, but either way he isn't likely to admit if he has cheated.
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    (Original post by didgeridoo12uk)
    ask (talk to) your boyfrirend. stop talking to her
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    (Original post by penniroyaltea)
    I have, but either way he isn't likely to admit if he has cheated.
    then you obviously don't trust your boyfriend. so probably shouldn't be in a relationship with him
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    We can't tell you which one is lying. We don't know him and we don't know her and it's pretty hard to tell from those texts that you've shown whether she's telling the truth or not.

    All you can do is talk to him about it OR take her up on the offer and go view the texts on her phone.
 
 
 
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