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    I have a problem.

    I'm crying as I write this. I've been going out with my girlfriend for over 6 months now, and at the moment, I feel simultaneously like I want to talk to her constantly, but at the same time, I feel like I'm falling out of love with her/questioning whether I actually loved her at all.

    Perhaps I should give a bit of history...

    We got together before summer, and then we had the summer break apart (8 weeks) but we saw each other 3 times in that time. During this time, I felt the need to constantly talk to her, but as she was busy with work etc, I didn't hear from her nearly as much as I thought.

    It turns out that at that point, she didn't feel the same that I did about her, but now she says she loves me. I'm finding at the moment, that I can't take a joke, or am not sure whether she is joking or not when we text/MSN each other, and I'm finding these to be grating now/ I think I'm starting to hate her...

    I have been suffering with depression for the past term, and she's helped enormously with that, and I've been going to her for support etc.

    I don't know what to do. Any advice?
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    P.S. This is the first girlfriend I've had
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    What is the actual problem here? All you need to do is stop crying, take a moment where it's just you and silence and think about why you love her.
 
 
 
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