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    For those of you who are in/have been in relationships where do you draw the line on your boyfriend/girlfriend flirting?
    How much is harmless and where does it get to be too much? Would/have any of you left your partners due to flirting?
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    It's simple really, when your partner pays more attention to others of the same gender more than you.
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    It gets too much when you it causes you to post a thread on tsr. If you was fine with it, this thread would not exist.
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    (Original post by Roo Bix)
    It's simple really, when your partner pays more attention to others of the same gender more than you.
    So do you think a one-off huge blunder is acceptable?
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    (Original post by TheCurlyHairedDude)
    It gets too much when you it causes you to post a thread on tsr. If you was fine with it, this thread would not exist.
    You might be right
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    (Original post by Soph1990)
    So do you think a one-off huge blunder is acceptable?
    Has someone been cheating?

    Naughty naughty! :ahee:
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    For me even light flirting pisses me off. If it is persistent I'd dump her. But thats just me (I'm extremely jealous).
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    (Original post by Soph1990)
    So do you think a one-off huge blunder is acceptable?
    Can you elaborate?
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    (Original post by Roo Bix)
    Can you elaborate?
    My boyfriend has a girl mate he admitted to fancying while we weren't together, he messaged her telling her he'd had a dream and she was in it..
    she replied annoyingly saying "ooh what was I wearing"....I saw this and asked if he replied, he said no, later I found out he had replied saying "You weren't wearing much at all, and it looked so good!"
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    (Original post by Soph1990)
    You might be right
    Aren't you the girl who is in like a five/six year relationship? Why don't you just talk to him?
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    If someone was able to flirt with my girl in front of me.

    They'd have to be REALLY arrogant/cocky.

    And have a knife on them.
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    no flirting at all.
    ugh.
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    (Original post by Converse)
    Aren't you the girl who is in like a five/six year relationship? Why don't you just talk to him?
    I am, and I have spoken to him about it, but I can't help but feel so let down, I'm just wondering if im letting the length of the relationship stop me from reacting to it like I really should.
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    (Original post by Soph1990)
    My boyfriend has a girl mate he admitted to fancying while we weren't together, he messaged her telling her he'd had a dream and she was in it..
    she replied annoyingly saying "ooh what was I wearing"....I saw this and asked if he replied, he said no, later I found out he had replied saying "You weren't wearing much at all, and it looked so good!"
    :eek: I wouldn't be very happy tbh.

    Have you talked to him about it?

    Edit: Don't worry about it, I've just seen the above post.
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    nah it doesnt bother me at all. im quite a big flirt so it would be hypocritical of me :/ as long as he doesnt cheat im fine with it!
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    (Original post by Soph1990)
    My boyfriend has a girl mate he admitted to fancying while we weren't together, he messaged her telling her he'd had a dream and she was in it..
    she replied annoyingly saying "ooh what was I wearing"....I saw this and asked if he replied, he said no, later I found out he had replied saying "You weren't wearing much at all, and it looked so good!"
    Yeah, I wouldn't be too impressed Soph. It's not exactly his fault he dreamed about her. But it's what he chose to do afterwards, which was explicitly tell her about it.
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    (Original post by Yawn11)
    If someone was able to flirt with my girl in front of me.

    They'd have to be REALLY arrogant/cocky.

    And have a knife on them.

    Damn it.. you have reached the number of posts you can rep...
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    (Original post by PaperSnowAGhost!)
    Damn it.. you have reached the number of posts you can rep...
    I've been gettint this quote a lot recently..
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    I'd be furious. Light flirting bothers me, but I don't say anything about it. But if he pretty much tells another girl he had a sex dream about her, I'd be like "Cool, then go **** her because you can't have me anymore."
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    (Original post by Soph1990)
    I am, and I have spoken to him about it, but I can't help but feel so let down, I'm just wondering if im letting the length of the relationship stop me from reacting to it like I really should.
    And this is a problem, have you let your guard down?
 
 
 
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