So... Really need some help, please. Sorry it's long.
I was with a girl for almost 6 years (I'm 21) and then I went to uni in September. We had been engaged for a month by this time. 3 weeks into my course (living 150 miles from home) she leaves me for another guy. This guy had literally just come out of a relationship (of 4 years) and seduced my girl into leaving me. 'My girl' then fell for this guy. Now, 2 months later, they have broken up (obviously... a relationship because of rebound will not work). Now she seems to be liking me again..
I think I'm just being hopeful though...
We occasionally text, and recently we've texted loads. The other day I told her the texts were giving me false hope and I'm torturing myself by contacting her and she said sorry and that she would not text me again. Yesterday morning she calls me up crying.. asking to meet up. We meet up and have a general conversation, and talk about how much of a **** this 'other' guy is. They seem over.
BUT... I really dont understand why she called me and wanted to meet up? We had a good talk, and we still get on well. She knows I still love her, and that I'm willing to take her back. Why does she continue to contact me?
I really need an opinion on this. I know I shouldn't want her back, but for those of you who have been in love, I'm sure you'll understand.