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    he's 23 and i'm 18 in my last year of school
    im not going to deny, he is very attractive
    so these are the reasons why i came to this conclusion:

    I catch him staring at me at times when the class is set to do silent work

    he intervened when the boys in my class were apparently talking about me in a derogative way. He gave them a good telling off

    he says he loves my perfume on a regular basis

    he calls me out to wait after class for the most trivial things at times. Once when were alone i felt my personal space being invaded. As soon as another teacher walked in he sort of moved away.


    I suppose I don't do anything to stop the situation either. I let it all happen and enjoy it.

    Advice?
    and please don't say anything like he's a paedophile because he's a really sweet and I am 18!
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    anyone got anything to say?
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    What do you expect us to say?
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    He sounds like the perfect guy
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    Sounds like you just want a reaction!
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    (Original post by ak9779)
    What do you expect us to say?
    i just wanted to know if it does sound like he fancies me
    and if i should make a move?
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    Get the porn cameras rolling people
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    Wear no underwear and uncross your legs then gauge his reaction.
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    Well it's up to you what you want to do.
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    These things do happen and they're very understandable when such a small age gap exists. No one could blame this man for being attracted to you, but they could for acting on it. I don't care what anyone says about love and passion being beyond the boundaries of convention, etc. etc., people are quite capable of self-control.

    In reality, you must know nothing can happen, not without a hell of a lot of drama and upset and probably even him losing his job.
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    He fancies you
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      Shag him.
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      Go on, ask him on a date.


      (Actually, scratch that.)
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      im being so serious
      i just need another person's view point on the situation
      i do like him but would it be best if i back out of it all?
      he's a really sweet guy...
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      (Original post by Anonymous)
      i just wanted to know if it does sound like he fancies me
      and if i should make a move?
      It's possible, and no certainly not - I don't care that you're technically an adult, you make a move and he is professionally compromised.
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      You'll lose respect from the other teachers, he could lose his job, you'll get a reputation etc etc etc. It's a bad road to go down in my opinion OP, but at the same time, if you're asking because you want to be sure he likes you before you hit on him, it sounds like you've already made your mind up.
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      u pulled, sikman
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      leave it a couple more months until you leave school and then do whatever you like.

      i know a teacher with an 18yr old is legal, but i just think it'd be a bit inappropriate if he was still having to teach you, marking your coursework etc. for one thing if you got really epic grades people would just assume it was because you were shagging the teacher :L
      So yeah, leave it until June, then ask him out.
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      Get his number or something and make your move once you have finished school!
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      dont make a move - it'll cost him his career
     
     
     
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