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    This is more of a rant than anything else to be honest, I'm not really one to post in H&R. But Anon or delete and all that.

    I seem to always want to end things prematurely whenever I'm getting together with someone.

    As the most recent example, there's this girl at uni I've been getting closer to ever since she broke up with her long-term boyfriend a few months ago. Things kinda came to a head just before Christmas. I'd stayed for a while at her house watching movies, talking and the like until the early hours of the morning. It was going quite well, but the things I said were things I wouldn't normally say and the way I acted wasn't with my usual demeanor. It was quite nice, I haven't been that comfortable with another person for a while.

    I'm at a nexus point where I could end up really liking her or totally ignoring her. I can't really explain why but I decided to delete her number from my phone and to block her account on Facebook because I don't think that things should progress any further. Not because that's what I want, but it doesn't feel like I should for some reason? It doesn't help that she is pretty good friends with most of my friends at uni (which is the main reason I know her), so it's a pretty stupid plan of action to be entirely honest.

    There's nothing wrong with her. She's genuinely intelligent, very cute, independent, funny and has a lot going for her. More so than myself and I'm doing pretty well to say the very least, in both academia and sport.

    I have a bad habit of doing this if/when things get a bit too serious and I should stop but I have a real problem taking that next step. I know it's really immature, but it can't be helped.

    Probably something to do with low self-worth or something equally pathetic, but I don't care.
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    Well, that was a pretty crappy thread title.

    Any chance a mod could change it to something like "I always end relationships before they can even begin" or something like that. I can't think of anything better at 2am.

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