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zooropa

I don't ever want children, because I hate them.

Am I the only person who thinks this?!

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Reply 1

sassy_j85*

Probably not.

But why do you hate them?

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Reply 2

sr4470

Probably not.

But you might have problems finding girls who agree with you...

Reply 3

BlackHawk

Totally agree. I do not hate them however, just find them a considerable inconvience.

Reply 4

Luvbug

may I ask why are you doing midwifery if you don't like children sassy? Is it children you don't like rather than babies?

Reply 5

sassy_j85*

Luvbug

may I ask why are you doing midwifery if you don't like children sassy? Is it children you don't like rather than babies?

If you read i haven't said i don't like kids-i answered the question that he is probably not the only one who hates kids!

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Reply 6

different?

WOW someone else in the world who doesn't get the whole children thing. We are few and far between. I don't hate them, as in it is necessary that they exist, but i don't want anything to do with them.

Reply 7

sr4470

sassy_j85*

If you read i haven't said i don't like kids-i answered the question that he is probably not the only one who hates kids!

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Yeah, we're just saying not all of us love kids...lol

Most of the people who dont like kids seem to be guys...

Well I'm a girl

different?

Its your choice, but I should ask both you and zooropa, how exactly does this come into the relationship context? You want a long term relationship but without ever having kids? :confused:

Do explain...

Reply 10

BlackHawk

I would be a girl too, last time I checked.

Anyway, if you spend £250,000 raising a child until 18, think of what a lovely sports car that can buy.

Reply 11

Catski

I'm a girl and I'm really not keen on children. They don't like me and I don't understand the joy of them. Plus I think pregnancy and childbirth are hair-raising enough to read about let alone to experience.

I'm quite happy to sit the whole thing out and be everyone' mad Auntie Cat who sends killer birthday presents.

Reply 12

sr4470

different?

Well I'm a girl

Only the second one I've heard say that. :wink:

Edit: make that 3.

Reply 13

BlackHawk

sr4470

Its your choice, but I should ask both you and zooropa, how exactly does this come into the relationship context? You want a long term relationship but without ever having kids? :confused:

Do explain...

Because not everyone wants to have kids? They would rather enjoy each others company and not have to spend years raising a child, looking out for it, caring for it and paying for it. You don't need kids to be complete in a relationship.

Reply 14

different?

Well are you saying that a long term relationship can not happen without having kids?

Reply 15

BlackHawk

How old are the girls that are saying this? Fair enough I said I never wanted kids when I was 17/18 but a lot of people change their opinions when they are in a long term loving relationship. I've not changed mine now that I'm older. (and wiser)

Reply 16

Luvbug

If you read i haven't said i don't like kids-i answered the question that he is probably not the only one who hates kids!

Sorry. Misread you!

Its your choice, but I should ask both you and zooropa, how exactly does this come into the relationship context? You want a long term relationship but without ever having kids? Do explain...

I don't get this either. Yes you can have a relationship but I don't see how it can be that bit more 'wow' without even the prospect of having kids. (I'm talking about the people who go into relationships saying they will never EVER have kids, not the ones who don't know yet or who'd like to but can't)

Reply 17

sr4470

Thats what I thought BlackHawk, I just wanted to know whether zooropa was going to say the same.

different?

Well are you saying that a long term relationship can not happen without having kids?

For me it probably couldnt. At some point I'd want to have kids.

Reply 18

different?

Old enough to know that I am not a fickle person who changes their mind left, right and centre. I'm afraid the arguement commonly used 'you'll change your mind when you're older' bears no weight with me.