In need of a guys opinion...

Right, I shall start by telling the story...

About a month ago I went out to a club with some friends. I was dancing away when my friend fell over and landed funny on her knee, which she'd hurt a few weeks ago on holiday. I went to a near by table and asked for one of the chairs, when the guy at the table said no, I called him a ******** and left it, when I walk past this guy who says to me "You've got a right attitude problem!". Anyway, we got talking and totally clicked and were together for about an hour, anyway we kissed and exchanged numbers. We got the bus home together and he walked me to my house (We both live in the student area of Manchester and he lives about 10minutes away). Anyway, we kept texting each other, and met up quite a few times, and were getting on really well; he was acting like a boyfriend etc. Anyway, suddenly he stops answering my calls and never replied to my texts, so i sent him one final message saying basically whats going on between us? he replied with he thinks we want different things, sorry to lead me on, but he realises hes happier on his own.

After I got that message I cried for about 3 hours because I really fell for him, and thought something was going to actually happen with us. I translated his message as meaning he wanted to sleep around and be single, but I really need a guys opinion to help me out, because I'm really confused!

Thanks!

Right, first of all I wouldn't go jumping to all sorts of conclusions and naturally, as the depressed spiral goes, thinking all worst things.

There are many possible reasons for his behaviour. But since, im guessing, no one here knows the ins and outs of this situation we cannot tell!

One thing is clear - that you were looking for different things and I would guess the most likely thing is that he got scared and is not ready for anything or even feels that he wants to 'play' about as you say!

I dont know if you have texted him since, but if you really thing he is 'the one' or you could be really good together your only hope is to send him a msg something along the lines of:

"we got on so well, im happy to things at any pace, I just enjoy your company" - I cant think of something better at the mo, as im not in that situation, but something that is playing it cool, but I think thats pretty obvious!

what do you think?!

Wont work.

If they did become friends they would become close again because of how they were before, then she will end up likeing him again and she will just get hurt

But seriously! your young, go out and have fun, dont think about settling down yet.

well dotn assume he wants to sleep around he may actually have other reasons possibly work

nope, but it will make him feel worse and might should make him more likely to sort his act out.

if thats what he wants to do, he shouldnt be acting like "the boyfriend" as previously mentioned.

things should be set clear from the start.

if only i took my own advice!! lol

.I translated his message as meaning he wanted to sleep around and be single, but I really need a guys opinion to help me out, because I'm really confused!

Thanks!

Lol, don't be sorry, hes the idiot who said it! We didn't even rush things though, holding hands and kissing and a bit of under top action was about the limit!

But we really clicked and it felt like we'd known each other for ages so thats why I thought it was actually going somewhere