Do you consider 'platonic' kissing on the lips with a guyfriend to be cheating?

My girlfriend told me when she's drunk she kisses her friends - both guys and girls - on the lips like when saying goodbye or something. But not unattractive friends because that's 'gross'.

Personally I think kissing on the lips - platonic or no - crosses a line, is totally inappropriate and does equal cheating - albeit mild, but then all forms of cheating are bad. I know she would never do it in front of me, and if she had I would probably lose it.

Also she has cheated on both of her previous boyfriends at the end of last year and beginning of this year. I know the past is the past, but it still causes me to lose trust in her. She's also quite thoughtless and spontaneous when she's drunk and does and says stupid things like blurting out hurtful things about people. Knowing this and that she kisses her guyfriends, just makes me lose trust in her, especially as it's a long distance relationship. I do love her, but I don't know what to do since she's not really apologetic about it but has said she won't kiss guys again.

My girlfriend told me when she's drunk she kisses her friends - both guys and girls - on the lips like when saying goodbye or something. But not unattractive friends because that's 'gross'.

Personally I think kissing on the lips - platonic or no - crosses a line, is totally inappropriate and does equal cheating - albeit mild, but then all forms of cheating are bad. I know she would never do it in front of me, and if she had I would probably lose it.

Also she has cheated on both of her previous boyfriends at the end of last year and beginning of this year. I know the past is the past, but it still causes me to lose trust in her. She's also quite thoughtless and spontaneous when she's drunk and does and says stupid things like blurting out hurtful things about people. Knowing this and that she kisses her guyfriends, just makes me lose trust in her, especially as it's a long distance relationship. I do love her, but I don't know what to do since she's not really apologetic about it but has said she won't kiss guys again.

Personally I think kissing on the lips - platonic or no - crosses a line, is totally inappropriate and does equal cheating

I'd be incredibly angry and the fact she only does it with attractive friends suggests it isn't platonic. Don't stand for it.

She said she won't do it again. I don't know what else to do to be honest especially given we're long distance. Threaten to end it sounds a bit far...and I don't really want to.

What do I do?

Anon fail.