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Driving myself insane!

Hi i'm a fairly insecure possibly paranoid person, my boyfriend gets annoyed by this and I can't blame him. I'm at uni and he's back at at home working for a small company. recently hes told me that a new girl/woman works there whos just finished uni. i find myself getting really jelous because he sees her everyday and not me! plus they both do the same things and have same interests, i guess im feelinga bit like this because he doesnt have many girl mates and so im used to being the only proper girl in his life. i dont wanna sound like a baby but i just wanna stop feeling so jelous and paranoid? :frown:
I'm the same, just remind yourself it's YOU he's with, and YOU he loves, and the feelings will fade in time
Reply 2
I doubt you've got anything to worry about...since you admit that you're paranoid, this may not be the best time to say this, but you've just got to ask yourself - do you trust him?
Yeah I trust him completely since hes always tryting to make me feel better and treats me great, I just find it hard to trust other people i.e. girls :rolleyes: I can't help comparing myself to others
oh, I have the same problem and I totaly understand yuor feelings and that u want to stop having them. if you want you can PM me and we will talk on msn about this or smth, I managed to calm myself down, may be will help u as well!
Reply 5
i get paranoid too at times its bad :frown:
its like the worst thing ever but i cant help it.
but im sure in time youll be fine...as long as you trust him it will be ok.
Thanks everyone, least ive realised im not the only one like this!