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I had anal sex and now my bum is bleeding

Ok, so the title is a lot more dramatic then how it is...

I had anal for the first time 3 days ago and it was fine. Didn't really hurt - was a little uncomfortable but that was it. We didn't use lube, but there was a lot of erm, natural lube so there were no problems.

Now, I've just been to the toilet and there was a little bit of blood coming from by behind... definitely not normal, obviously.

Are the two related? Could something have torn? But if so, wouldn't it have bled a lot earlier and at the time?

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I wouldn't worry too much about it, I get that all the time after just having a reasonable-sized dump. Probably a minor cut/tear.
Reply 2
natural lube? I hope you mean sweat or saliva.

Anyway, just leave it. You probably just have a small tear from a lumpy ****, its no big deal.
Your anus does not have any natural lubricant, your fecal matter does not count
I had a similar experience from a ginourmous turd the other day. Don't worry it just needs time.
Reply 5
Original post by py0alb
natural lube? I hope you mean sweat or saliva.

Anyway, just leave it. You probably just have a small tear from a lumpy ****, its no big deal.


we'd just had vaginal sex
Original post by py0alb
natural lube? I hope you mean sweat or saliva.

Anyway, just leave it. You probably just have a small tear from a lumpy ****, its no big deal.


Vaginal fluid?

OP leave it be for a bit, you may well have a tear.

If it still persists or gets worse see your doctor.
Original post by LethalBizzle
I had a similar experience from a ginourmous turd the other day. Don't worry it just needs time.


Amen ^.^
Reply 8
When you say natural lube, do you just mean diarrhoea?
Reply 9
Original post by Anonymous
Ok, so the title is a lot more dramatic then how it is...

I had anal for the first time 3 days ago and it was fine. Didn't really hurt - was a little uncomfortable but that was it. We didn't use lube, but there was a lot of erm, natural lube so there were no problems.

Now, I've just been to the toilet and there was a little bit of blood coming from by behind... definitely not normal, obviously.

Are the two related? Could something have torn? But if so, wouldn't it have bled a lot earlier and at the time?


you're screwed. Next time you do a poop the poop will rub into the cut and the poop will enter the blood stream. It's called faeces-agglutination.

I'd recommend seeing a doctor IMMEDIATELY.
It's not supposed to happen, but easily does if you don't use lubricant. Leave the anal sex for a while until the bleeding has stopped and try a water based lubricant in future; this should help stop any pain and discomfort.
Original post by wilfrids is awful
you are a whore :-)


Why on earth??

OP, I'm sure it will heal on it's own, don't worry. Just use proper lube next time. Why do people on TSR get so uptight about this?
Reply 12
Are you male or female?
Original post by norbury
Are you male or female?


Quite obviously female as she states natural lube being vaginal fluid.
Original post by Yawn11
Eww, man I'm never having anal sex, **** liek that is just disgusting.

It's weird, the porn turns me on.

But the thought of actually doing it, I dunno...


OP was doing it wrong. As long as you use lube, and start with fingers first, there should be no problem.
Reply 15
might be cancer and just a coincidence it is having visible effects after you took it down the back alley. see a doctor.
Reply 16
I doubt you damaged anything long term.
Anal sex is ok once in a while but it's probably best not to partake in it too often, after all you don't want to end up with an a-hole that resembles a clowns pocket by the time you hit middle age.
If you only used residual vaginal lubrication it may be that you tore slightly during sex. Usually it is best to use a generous amount of lubricant when performing any anal sex to reduce the chance of tearing and to make it more comfortable for the receiver. If you tore during anal sex, any bowel movement in the few days after may aggravate the tear causing it to bleed again. It's nothing to worry about if there is only a small amount of blood but if it becomes painful or bleeds profusely then you should consult with a doctor. Also be sure to use a new condom/clean the penis if you wish to continue with vaginal sex after anal sex to reduce the chance of bacteria entering the vagina.
like the boy from kite-runner lol!
Reply 19
Original post by Le_Bow
I doubt you damaged anything long term.
Anal sex is ok once in a while but it's probably best not to partake in it too often, after all you don't want to end up with an a-hole that resembles a clowns pocket by the time you hit middle age.


No more constipation.. :wink:

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