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Girls getting offended

I invited this girl from my old school round to my place yesterday. We'd been flirting quite a bit for the last couple of weeks and i we both just wanted a bit of fun, no strings attatched (at least thats what i thought).

Anyways we were getting into it and i like to talk while having sex so i said "dam thats good pussy" cos i mean i was just in the mood and stuff. All of a sudden she looks at me all offended and kind of wanted to stop. anyways in the end we finished but the whole atmosphere changed after that. i dont think she'll be too keen on talking to me anymore either.

i just cant see how what i said could be that offensive?? is it me or is she way too sensitive? girls back me up here :wink:

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Far too sensitive.

are you serious?

well...eh, talking when having sex is ok. but what you said was like a line from a bad porn movie. not that there are any good ones....you know what i mean. if you absolutely had to say that you could have put in another way.

Reply 3

Lauren Hart

lots of girls dislike that kinda talk. You need to read cosmo more often! some of us arent comfy with it, some of us love it - you need to find the balance

Reply 4

shrutikim

okay this thread is making me laugh!!

you said ' yumm! great pussy ' ?
how sick are you?

Reply 5

guilly

shrutikim

okay this thread is making me laugh!!

you said ' yumm! great pussy ' ?
how sick are you?

whats wrong with it? all guys think like that anyways

Reply 6

elena1

I personally am all for talking during sex - I hate this sex-is-hallowed-so-it-must-be-in-silence-with-lights-off ********.

She definitely over-reacted.
But just always err on the side of caution when you haven't had sex a couple of times with someone.

Reply 7

_EMMA_

guilly

whats wrong with it? all guys think like that anyways

say it in another way.

Reply 8

Lauren Hart

yes, but guys need to think about how the girl feels
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plus this is personally why i prefer sex inside a long term relationship - youve had time to talk about sexual preferences

Reply 9

guilly

i just find it annoying because when you flirt you have to be careful not to hurt feelings etc.. and basically say "i wanna shag you" but without being rude abuot it.when you're having sex you should just let out what you're feeling and not worry about covering things up.thats whats good about it imo

Reply 10

shrutikim

guilly

whats wrong with it? all guys think like that anyways

okay! i agree that all guys think that way , buy girls like sensitive guys.
You had to make her feel special, not scare her by being vulgar.

She must be believing that you want her just for sex.

Reply 11

Lauren Hart

but thats all they were after

Reply 12

Evilturnip9

Lmao dude, if you're gonna talk while having sex why would you say that?

Reply 13

guilly

sometimes i really wonder if girls are as sensitive as they say they are.of course not all, but many of them are just slappers who dont care abuot the way a guy feels

this is true

maybe some of them are like that but i doubt they wanna feel that way,

Reply 16

guilly

Evilturnip9

Lmao dude, if you're gonna talk while having sex why would you say that?

dunno cos it turns me on.different people have different preferences just the way it is.what would u suggest i say :rolleyes:

Reply 17

shrutikim

It also matters the way you said it, had you said (what you actually said) , in a cute and cheeky manner , I don’t think it would have bothered her.
But if you said it with a watery tongue dangling out of you mouth, like a wolf, she would have not liked it obviously.