Does she fancy him?

saz_1989

In this story there are three people. Person A is a girl going out with person B, who is a boy. Person C is a girl who is friends with person B.

I don't know person B or C or most of the situation since I'm at a different uni to person A (my friend) so you'll have to go on the only info I've got!

Anyway, last term person C kept asking person B to go for coffee, even though he is seeing person A. Person A was not impressed and told me about it when it happened. This term, person A was out clubbing with her boyfriend, when she lost him. She found him talking to person C, which was all fine, except when she went over to them person C walked off past her and ignored her. Realising who person C was, person A was really annoyed.

Person A and B were in a pub with a group of people, including person C, and she ignored person A and didn't talk to person B - strange if they're meant to be friends? Now person A has seen a large group photo where person B and C are standing next to each other. So she's hitting the roof. She hasn't spoken to her boyfriend person B because he's playing football or something, and isn't planning on talking to him until later tonight or tomorrow.

What's your opinion? Does person C fancy person B? Maybe vice versa?

I'm aware that it could just be a friends thing, but it sounds weird to me...

Thanks for any help :smile:

PS Just to clarify, person A has never seen person C until she saw her in the club and got ignored.

Reply 1

rachelrainbow32

Person C fancies person B, or doesnt like Person A, Person B doesnt fancy person C.

Reply 2

Lauren Hart

well, her bf doesnt really seem to have done anything wrong.

Reply 3

Hashshashin

Oh, I'm soo confused...

Why couldn't you just make false names up, if you really felt it so necessary to hide their identities? :confused:

Reply 4

Apricot Fairy

I think person A is *probably* making mountains out of molehills here. It's possible person C fancies person B, but if that's really all there is to the story, it doesn't look as though the feelings are reciprocated, and I can't see how any kind of confrontation would be beneficial to anybody.

Reply 5

miss_buttercup

yea i agree, in my opinion i dont think person b has done n e thing particulary wrong and if person a throws a fit about it not only is she lowering herself to person c's standard shes also giving person c an excuse to 'stand in'. if i were person a, i would put on a smile, act as though she hasnt really noticed person c's silly behaviour and show that im an ace gf and far too good to leave!xx

Reply 6

RealityIsDull

*eyes cross from over loads of the letters A,B and C*

Reply 7

random123

The first thing that should happen is person A should speak to person B about person C, before person A speaks to person C, possibly ruining things with person B. If you get my drift...

LJ you suck!

I think A should just chill out and be the mature person...

Reply 10

sahsum

Person B has chosen person A over person C so person A should try not to worry.

Reply 11

wednesburywench

no1s done anything wrong by the sounds of. just sounds like person a is being jelous and overprotective, she went mad because of a photo standing next to each other, come on!

Reply 12

zhivago

I agree with what some people have said.

Person A sounds very, very jealous. I'm not condemning her, but she does. She is obviously jealous because it is a natural feeling in others, but it is my personal opinion that she is being slightly paranoid. I'm not saying that I wouldn't feel the same, but she does seem to be "hitting the roof" because her boyfriend is standing next to a girl in a photograph! I mean, really...

It doesn't seem like Person B fancies Person C.

It may be that Person C doesn't fancy Person B, merely that they are *shock horror* really good friends. People always assume this lad fancies me/I fancy him/we are going out, when really we are just good friends.

If the above is correct (B and C are just good friends) it may be just that Person C does not like Person A generally.

It could, however, be that Person C does fancy Person B, which is why C acts so strangely towards Person A.

From here, it is impossible to tell which is the truth.