blood when you have sex for the first time

heya, I dont really know how to write this, so Im just goin to go for it. I was just wondering about mess, ie blood, when you have sex for the first time. If you do bleed, is it a lot etc?
Thanks, Amy

Reply 1

random_dude_66

i bleed when i first had sex wiv my bf and i didnt notice was till the next day he askedif he had hurt me when we had sex coz he said there was a SPOT of blood in his bed .

it wasnt alot so no need to worrie.
hope this helped

Reply 2

Purple

It depends, when you bleed it's when something breaks inside of you (sorry thats a vague description I cant remember the name of it:/) but anyway I didn't bleed at all as it had already been broken during foreplay months ago.

Reply 3

Clarence

I think it depends on the person... i didn't bleed. I think its to do with the hymen thing.

Reply 4

tbm

Its more like light spotting, you wont get a rush of blood if thats what you're worried about! You might have a small amount of 'spotting' on your underwear after, then again you might not bleed at all, it depends on the person.

Reply 5

clouddweller

Clarence

I think it depends on the person... i didn't bleed. I think its to do with the hymen thing.

yeah, if you havent already broken your hymen (which can be done through horse riding, dance, strenuous exercise, not to mention using tampons) then it will break the first time you have sex and may cause some bleeding. I dont think its ever that much though...

Reply 6

Lauren Hart

its mostly the hymen breaking, but thats not to say you might not get spotting anyway, Rather embarrassed i was the other day when my bf was down on my and suddenly had blood all over his fingers! He wasnt even being rough with me, so i cant understand why all these months of having sex i should do that! But any decent guy will just be concerned you arent in pain and he'll be cool!

Reply 7

michelle9876

My first time I bled alot. It didn't hurt, at all, but when I got home and woke up in the morning, I noticed that the back of my skirt was absolutly covered in blood. The next time was a little messy, however not so bad. And then if I don't have sex for quite a while, I sometimes bleed. So even though it might not be the "norm" you should maybe expect that you could get a bit more than just spotting...