7 month relationship ended via text

My boyfriend just ended a seven month relationship over text, after knowing each other for just under a year and being together for a little over seven months.

The reasons were:
Because I go clubbing, i'm now 18,- but i've been 3 times since the start ofn December,- not exactly alot.
Because I'm selfish,- i'm not comfortable with my sexuality and don't like kissing him in public often or holding hands, which I've said from the start, yet most days I still do kiss in public once or twice, but I really hate it,- why do I want to force my sexuality down the throats of others.
Because of "other guys",- which there are none of.

I feel so empty right now, lost and confused, sick and ****. I don't understand, i've never spent so much time, money or effort with anyone. He, until two days ago, was so full on.

Does anyone else think this is cold?

he is insecure....obviously.....let it go...

errr no it doesn't

Yes it does.

Why does that even matter, I never once said it didn't happen to anyone else.
Irrelevance.

I hope you don't mind me mentioning but this is what I think you should do

-delete his phone no from your phone.
-block his texts and calls
-unfriend him from facebook
-wash him out of your hair by going to the hairdressers and getting a FANTASTIC haircut
-go home for the weekend and have 'flu' and explain to your mum that you are unavailable for phone calls from any males as you have flu.

If he tracks you down, when you get back, explain that if he wants to get back with you he will have to do MEGA stuff like take you out and pay a minimum of 7 times and something really special on valentines as well.

He simply hasn't been doing enough for you so far. You are worth so much more.

By text? That's a slap in the face. But ask yourself, do you regret this decision, really? Would you rather be with him trying to dictate your life, or make you feel bad about yourself by being 'selfish'?

If being with him meant i'd be happier, which it would, yes. In an instant.

You have to understand, that he has to understand, that you've just turned 18. It's clear to me from this post that your loyalty is with him however, have a discussion with him, it possibly just petty insecurity.

I just feel hollow, unwanted and like i've not done the best I could have done, it was my choices and bad decisions which caused this, I failed to keep him happy.

You're naturally going to blame and question yourself though, aren't you? But think realistically, he dumped you over text, he's not perfect either.

Thanks, you're such a great help, ah, best cheeryupy person ever.