Would It Ever Happen..

Kittennffc

I'm sure a few of you here know that about a week ago I got 'dumped' by someone. I still really like this person, and in their text ending things they said "I do like you, but.."

If I happened to bump into this person, what is likely to happen?

You and me have been through this :wink:

Reply 2

OP

Hmm! My friend has told me nothing will happen, he said "hes made it clear he doesnt want things to happen, so they wont". Harsh.

Would you agree?

Reply 3

Kittennffc

Hmm! My friend has told me nothing will happen, he said "hes made it clear he doesnt want things to happen, so they wont". Harsh.

Would you agree?

Harsh but most likely true im afraid, it sounds like your pinning your hopes on something happening, but its not a good idea to get your hopes up like that

Reply 4

OP

I know, I shouldn't, but i've got this stupid thing in my head thats saying "well he liked you enough before so why wont he now?" And its stupid because I know its not going anywhere.

I got a text from my friend earlier saying shes not with the guy she liked anymore. I think Wednesday will be a big night to drown our sorrows :frown:

Reply 5

nothing unles you want something to happen, you should be able to talk to each other in a civilised manor and face to face confrontations is better then text messages!!

you really shouldn't worry about it, like they say cross that bridge when you come to it!!
if you want to put your mind at rest about osmething talk to him about it the best way to deal with these things is to talk about them

(ok that might be totally rubbish advise im giving you, im sorr i have a massive headache, but i thought id try and help you)

Reply 6

OP

Aww, no thats great, thankyou :smile:

I don't want to talk to him about it though, because he made it clear that he wanted to be single, so I don't want to just text him randomly or ring him because he'd not reply or pick up the phone.

I guess if I bump into him, which is likely because we always go to the same clubs, bars and pubs, i'll just see what happens. I'll just not get my hopes up, and try and get over liking him.

Reply 7

Kittennffc

I know, I shouldn't, but i've got this stupid thing in my head thats saying "well he liked you enough before so why wont he now?" And its stupid because I know its not going anywhere.

I got a text from my friend earlier saying shes not with the guy she liked anymore. I think Wednesday will be a big night to drown our sorrows :frown:

No not stupid its natural to think, well if this person liked me before then whats changed??
Well peoples feelings change for many different reasons, you know nothing will happen but you still want to hang on to the hope something will happen.
Rather than get depressed drowning ya sorrows down the pub, why not just have a big girls night in and that???

Reply 8

when you see him act as if you aren;t all that bothered, act like you would toward a friend, don't make the effort to talk to him as soon as he arrives wait a while (if with your friends), to show you have got over him, then you will be able to tell if he gets abit annoyed or confused then you can tell if he still likes you!!, honestly it is the only thing you can do if you don't want to talk to him about it, don;t hide from him or ignore him or he may think you are bitter toward him, and you never know he might even go up to you and talk to you first.

be strong and don't let yourself get upset!!
girlpower and all that lol

Reply 9

OP

Aww thanks guys!

I'm confident when it comes to anything apart from guys, I would definately not go straight up to him! When we both went to the same pub by mistake, it was the first time i'd seen him since we met, and I was so shy I tried to pretend I hadn't seen him walk in!

I would hope he'd have the decency to come over to me and say hi, hes got that confident Irish charm thats never good when you like someone! Lol!

Reply 10

aww well i hope everything works out for you hun and if you need anyone to talk to just PM me okies...

Reply 11

Kittennffc

Aww thanks guys!

I'm confident when it comes to anything apart from guys, I would definately not go straight up to him! When we both went to the same pub by mistake, it was the first time i'd seen him since we met, and I was so shy I tried to pretend I hadn't seen him walk in!

I would hope he'd have the decency to come over to me and say hi, hes got that confident Irish charm thats never good when you like someone! Lol!

Then its simple, whats he got that no other guy has???
when you think like that he wont seem that special

Reply 12

OP

We completely clicked, and just felt like we'd known each other for ages. I completely fell for him after about 5minutes of talking to him, and I didn't think he was particularly hot *I do now*, but he was such a nice person to talk to. So I guess thats kinda special..

But I can find that with someone else :smile:

Reply 13

Kittennffc

We completely clicked, and just felt like we'd known each other for ages. I completely fell for him after about 5minutes of talking to him, and I didn't think he was particularly hot *I do now*, but he was such a nice person to talk to. So I guess thats kinda special..

But I can find that with someone else :smile:

Exactly
Not exactly one in a million is he, why waste your clearly lovely personallity on him when you could easily find someone like him if not better,
who actually realises your the one in a million

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