just thought id update u guys. Well we spoke last night on msn and he apologised for not texting me back, said he forgot whilst he was busy. he also said that 'you havent done anything, i promise, i promise!!'. So thats where it's at at the moment...I'm going to see how it goes for the next few days. If ne of you have any thoughts or advice on what i shud perhaps do or wat the next move shud be, i would love to hear it. ill keep you posted xx