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Reply 1
Yes. There is a risk that even though he doesn't come inside you there is a minor ejaculation. it's not as likely as if he actually came inside you but its possible.
Reply 2
Yesssssssss
Reply 3
then I am in deep s**t =)))) sorry
Reply 4
Is it too late for you to take the morning after pill?- up to 72 hours?
Reply 5
Yes, it is possible! The safest way is to wear a condom but I presume that there must have been a good reason why u didn't use one. Get now to your surgery and get the morning after pill!!
Reply 6
CherryGarcia
I am in deep s**t =)))) sorry


Well if you did it that way, you won't be pregnant.
Reply 7
CherryGarcia
Is it possible to get pregnant if you dont use a condom, but a partner doesnt come inside you. Especially, when you are in a risk * zone * of your periods, i mean just 2 weeks before they start??? :confused:


coz there's something called precum that's got sperm as well n yeh u could be at a risk.hopefully u'll get ur period but if u don't it doesn't really mean u're pregnant.if u don't get it the second month go see a gp quick
A small amount of semen is released before the guy actually ejaculates, which could also get you pregnant, so yes, it is entirely possible. Only one sperm has to be a good enough swimmer to get you pregnant.

When adult couples are trying for a baby, it often takes months of trying before the woman conceives. So when you look at it like that, just because you could be pregnant, it doesn't mean you are.

When did this happen? If it was within the past 72 hours, I suggest you get the morning after pill as soon as possible. If it was within the past 4-5 days, you could get an IUD fitted, which could also prevent a possible pregnancy. Obviously you'd have to talk to your doctor about this, and I don't think it's standard procedure to fit them for young girls, as your body may not have finished growing.

Other than that, the only thing you can do is wait for about three weeks, and then take a pregnancy test. I don't think going to your doctor right now (unless for an IUD) will help, as it will be too soon for them to tell whether you are pregnant or not. You might want to visit planned parenthood or your local Brooks centre, as they will be able to give you all the advice you need.

I know it's difficult, but please try not to panic. The only thing you can do (assuming this happened within the last couple of days) is to get some emergency contraception as soon as possible. Other than that, you'll have to wait. If your period comes in two weeks' time, great. If it doesn't, don't panic straight away. Stress can often delay your periods, and if you're worried about possibly being pregnant, it probably won't come.

If you find out you are pregnant, the first thing you need to do is see your doctor, or go to your local family planning clinic. They will be able to go through all your options with you. It's best to go as soon as possible, because the sooner you acknowledge the fact that you are pregnant, the more time you have to decide what you are going to do. If you decide to have an abortion, it is better to have it done as soon as possible. If you decide to have the baby, you'll have longer to come to terms with it.

If you're not pregnant, you can breathe a huge sigh of relief and learn from this. There is really no excuse for accidental pregnancy, as contraception is free on the NHS and extremely effective if you use it properly. Hormonal birth control, assuming there is no reason why you can't use it, is definitely the safest way of preventing pregnancy, and you should always use a condom to make doubly sure, as well as to prevent STDs. You might think you know the guy, but plenty of girls have been fooled by someone they thought was nice. Even if you get yourselves tested together, a guy could cheat on his girlfriend, pick up an STD and pass it on to her. So it is really safer to use a condom at all times until you're in an extremely committed relationship. The fact that you had unprotected sex to begin with suggests to me that you didn't take the precaution of getting yourselves tested, and you will need to do this as well. The family planning clinic is a good first step.

I hope you're not pregnant. I really do. But if you're going to continue to be sexually active, please be more responsible next time! Get yourself tested for STDs, make sure you're clean, get yourself on the pill (or another form of hormonal contraception) and always use a condom. You'll enjoy sex much more if you're not constantly facing pregnancy scares!
Reply 9
.Em.
Is it too late for you to take the morning after pill?- up to 72 hours?

well, yeah it is too late...
When did it happen?
Reply 11
sent you PM susie =)
age 12: the first lesson of sex ed: the withdrawal method is not a reliable form of contraception!!!
Reply 13
Hun, don't worry it will be ok just whip into your gp's. They are cool about stuff like that, it's best to make certain your doing everything possible.
Reply 14
Its possible but has never happened to me.
Reply 15
i don't know the technical terms but there is some stuff that comes out before ejaculation which may contain a minial amount of sperm but thats all it takes!!

you should go to the family planning clinic and talk to them about it, they can help you abit more!!!

they may even do a PG test unless its too early!! just go anyways i reckon hun!!
Reply 16
... maybe he was firing blanks... hopefully
Reply 17
Strange!!!
I thought everyone would know it was possible
Reply 18
Go with what Susie has said, seems good advice. Go to the other thread on pregnancy in the GD section (the one shrouded by scepticism) for more information, search for "pregnant with twins" and it should come up.

At the end of the day - worse case scenario - you are pregnant. Your life is by no means ruined, you do have choices, you will have to be responsible and you will have to decide whether to abort or keep the child. But having a baby young might seem like a curse at the time, but once that child grows up and you both sort out your lives it may turn out to be a blessing.

Either way I wish you luck. Try and be more responsible in future!
Reply 19
kirstinx
Its possible but has never happened to me.


Lucky for little old 16 year old you. Just keep screwing!...... :eek: