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Reply 100

Indeed!

Reply 101

Cherry Garcia -
It is possible to get pregnant but it is also quite unlikely, this exact same thing happened to me and I did not get pregnant - my period came exactly on time although it was very light, so I took a test and it came out negative.
So try not to worry too much, and even if the worst did happen - well I mean, you're twenty so presumabley mature enough to raise a child? At least you're not like 15 and in school with no money and no job etc. Well that might be the case anyway I guess but at least at 20 there are a lot more options open to you..
Good luck! Try not to worry.

Reply 102

"A small amount of semen is released before the guy actually ejaculates"

Thats not a 100%... It doesn't always happen, although thats no excuse for not using protection. like I've said elsewhere, EVERYbody is different, just because this is common in one man, that doesnt make its common for every man.
It CAN happen as appose to it WILL happen

Reply 103

Little Girl Red
Cherry Garcia -
It is possible to get pregnant but it is also quite unlikely, this exact same thing happened to me and I did not get pregnant - my period came exactly on time although it was very light, so I took a test and it came out negative.
So try not to worry too much, and even if the worst did happen - well I mean, you're twenty so presumabley mature enough to raise a child? At least you're not like 15 and in school with no money and no job etc. Well that might be the case anyway I guess but at least at 20 there are a lot more options open to you..
Good luck! Try not to worry.

Thank you very much for your post =) I am a bit worried..but hope everh will be ok...well, I have about 1,5 week to wait =) I think I will never be so happy to get my periods =)))
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Treception
"A small amount of semen is released before the guy actually ejaculates"

Thats not a 100%... It doesn't always happen, although thats no excuse for not using protection. like I've said elsewhere, EVERYbody is different, just because this is common in one man, that doesnt make its common for every man.
It CAN happen as appose to it WILL happen

yeah, thats true, what you said, and I know ppl who were trying to get a babdy and man came many times in woman and they were not successful, but I also know a girl, who is 20 and who has a daughter 2 years old, she got pregnant exactly that way, and you know the possibility to be pregnant doesnt make me happy.... :frown:

Reply 104

then get a pregnancy test done! get the new one that does it from like, the second day of conception! Better than having to wait for ages to find out, trust me that 1.5 weeks will be horrible. I was a day late a couple of months back and id never been so stressed!

Reply 105

sooner then later

Reply 106

Lauren Hart
then get a pregnancy test done! get the new one that does it from like, the second day of conception! Better than having to wait for ages to find out, trust me that 1.5 weeks will be horrible. I was a day late a couple of months back and id never been so stressed!

I thought it is too early to make test...you think I should do it ASAP??? i mean will it work??? it isjust like a week or so... :confused:
are there special tests or any would be ok to get if I am pregnant or not on early days?

Reply 107

im not sure how the dates work to be perfectly honest, but theres the new one that can tell really really early on! I think you should check as early as possible! Coz if you have a hard decision to make, the sooner you make it the better!

Reply 108

Lauren Hart
im not sure how the dates work to be perfectly honest, but theres the new one that can tell really really early on! I think you should check as early as possible! Coz if you have a hard decision to make, the sooner you make it the better!

Ok, I bought a test for early testing and it was negative :biggrin: I was soo happy :biggrin: but anyway, I am still a bit concerned and will be totaly sure just when I get my periods, but I wanted to thank you all guyes for helping and supporting me :tsr: Thanks

Reply 109

its always best to do 2 a week apart :smile:

Reply 110

you know what I was thinking about when I was making a test? I fpr some time got this smile thinking that I could have a baby...what a madness...jez...

Reply 111

silly silly girl
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always use a condom! i suggest you go on the pill

Reply 112

well everyone else says yes so... yes!! xxx

Reply 113

You know, children aren't that bad a thing - they won't just come along and destroy your life or something....
I'm loving the preaching guys, by the way. Especially from Trigger. Either you're very experienced or you're a virgin, honey. The girl's 20 and so old enough to handle herself.
I think it's hilarious the amount of 'you silly silly girl' comments coming out as well - obviously from having sex unprotected ONCE she is automatically pregnant! Looks like those videos in PSE from year 8 are doing the trick...
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Oh and to read a bit about the rhythm method: http://www.contraception.net/resource_centre/rhythm_method.asp

Reply 114

Poica

I'm loving the preaching guys, by the way. Especially from Trigger. Either you're very experienced or you're a virgin, honey. The girl's 20 and so old enough to handle herself.


Oh, come now, she is *20* and does not know this! I knew that when I was bloody 13!

If you don't know such things, then you may not want to be sexually active.

Reply 115

Poica
You know, children aren't that bad a thing - they won't just come along and destroy your life or something....
I'm loving the preaching guys, by the way. Especially from Trigger. Either you're very experienced or you're a virgin, honey. The girl's 20 and so old enough to handle herself.
I think it's hilarious the amount of 'you silly silly girl' comments coming out as well - obviously from having sex unprotected ONCE she is automatically pregnant! Looks like those videos in PSE from year 8 are doing the trick...
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Oh and to read a bit about the rhythm method: http://www.contraception.net/resource_centre/rhythm_method.asp

its hardly preaching, if she could "HANDLE" HER SELF SHE WOULDNT BE ASKING IF SHE COULD GET PREGNANT WHILST HAVing unprotected Sex. And it doesnt matter if im a virgin or a slag as i can see you wanted to rigth, i know how to keep myself safe from unwanted pregnancy and STD's. i find it rather sad that people in their 20's are still very unwise to Sex and it happens to be an issue i feel very strongley about.
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...Sprigged...
Oh, come now, she is *20* and does not know this! I knew that when I was bloody 13!

If you don't know such things, then you may not want to be sexually active.
agreed, it doesnt take that much effort to get clued up and at 20 you really should know the basics at least, correct me if im wrong here

Reply 116

...Sprigged...
Oh, come now, she is *20* and does not know this! I knew that when I was bloody 13!

If you don't know such things, then you may not want to be sexually active.

Oh, come on..sure I know you can get pregnant with unprotected sex, but my point was to know if anyone had this experiance - getting pregnant, even thoguth a guy didnt come in to you. Tha was the point. I know it is possible, I wanted to hear some stories and to get some support thats all, coz I was and am pretty nervois. :frown:
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Poica
You know, children aren't that bad a thing - they won't just come along and destroy your life or something....
I'm loving the preaching guys, by the way. Especially from Trigger. Either you're very experienced or you're a virgin, honey. The girl's 20 and so old enough to handle herself.
I think it's hilarious the amount of 'you silly silly girl' comments coming out as well - obviously from having sex unprotected ONCE she is automatically pregnant! Looks like those videos in PSE from year 8 are doing the trick...
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Oh and to read a bit about the rhythm method: http://www.contraception.net/resource_centre/rhythm_method.asp

thanks a lot for your support :tsr:

Reply 117

CherryGarcia
Oh, come on..sure I know you can get pregnant with unprotected sex, but my point was to know if anyone had this experiance - getting pregnant, even thoguth a guy didnt come in to you. Tha was the point. I know it is possible, I wanted to hear some stories and to get some support thats all, coz I was and am pretty nervois. :frown:
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thats hardly the impression you gave
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id like to know what im getting greif for exactly

Reply 118

Hey Cherry, hope everything works out for the best for you.
Things like this can happen, but I suggest you go see your doctor and ask him to put you on the pill, unless you have reasons not to go on it. You don't need to be in a relationship to justify it.
I just recently talked to my doctor about it and I expressed concerns, because I have been on the pill since I was 17. That's 7 years now. Same one all the time. He assured me that it is fine and even though he thought it was very great of me to think of alternatives, he said it is the best thing right now.

Anyway, people should not make silly girl comments, things like this happen from time to time and yeah, it may be immature, but no need to make people feel even worse about it. She is not some 12 year old who just went off and had sex, she is 20 and I am sure if the situation came up and she was pregnant, she would be able to make an informed decision that won't destroy her life.

Reply 119

we...well i anyway wasnt debating the baby issue its the fact that at 20 you should know not to listen to crap from your boyfriend saying "its ok you wont get pregnant its not the right time in your cycle", whens the last time he had a period. Also its th efact that at 20 you really should know that unprotected sex could get you pregnant. (im aware now that she has said she was asking for "stories" :rolleyes: )

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