as per the thread title, with pole dancing classes springing up at every local gym and hall, do guys find girls who do pole dancing as a hobby more attractive?
i have a friend who goes regularly to these classes, and whenever she meets a dude she fancies, she is sure to drop into the conversation about how she looovvves pole dancing. of course, she is sure to always say about how it is 'a good way to keep fit' and that she is 'doing it for herself not for men, to feel empowered'. but usually at the first mention of pole dancing the guys tongue is practically hanging out his mouth and immediately "do you wanna go out sometime?" he drools.
so yeah two girls equally attractive, but one of them likes pole dancing the other likes running. does it make much difference to which one you'd be more interested in dating?
my other friend also reckons that once she has a bf, her awesome pole dancing skills, mean he is less likely to cheat or leave her because she is so hot in the bedroom, and not many other girls have this skill so it secures the relationship.
she has dated some awesomely hot guys and very rich guys using the above approach and is sure to pull whoever she wants. plus, she doesnt even own her own flat or pay rent since often one dude after another will let her stay round theirs for free, so i guess it does secure a relationship.
logic tells me a guy prefers a relationship of substance, persoanlity looks brains and class over a pole dancing bimbo. but the other half of me looks at the evidence from my friends and wonders if the lower brain really rules.
in order to compete in the dating market, should all girls learn pole dancing?
EDIT: this isnt a bash at women doing pole dancing, it is a skilled sport requiring strength. but it is a kind of bash at girls who use their love of pole dancing as a way to get guys. kinda cheap, no? then why does it work?