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Help Jealous!
Hiya, recantly I found out my bf had looked up carmen electra on his pc. I know it might not seem like a big deal but it just came as a shock to me as he's never seemed to do anything like that before. I asked him about it 
and he said he looked coz he thought she was fit and only looks at stuff like that once a weekish. I know thats hardly anything esp as im at uni so it must be hard for him but Im feeling jealous and upset now, he says he thinks of me when he pleasures himself and thats groovy butit just annoys me that hes looking at someone prettier than me, even though he says im really beautiful and sexy etc. i cant stop being jelous
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and he said he looked coz he thought she was fit and only looks at stuff like that once a weekish. I know thats hardly anything esp as im at uni so it must be hard for him but Im feeling jealous and upset now, he says he thinks of me when he pleasures himself and thats groovy butit just annoys me that hes looking at someone prettier than me, even though he says im really beautiful and sexy etc. i cant stop being jelousHelp me
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Reply 1
he fancies a celebrity, Big Deal, im sure there are celebrities which you fancy!
maybe somethin to worry bout if it was a normal person but its not.
maybe somethin to worry bout if it was a normal person but its not.
Reply 2
Monkey_Maiden
Hiya, recantly I found out my bf had looked up carmen electra on his pc. I know it might not seem like a big deal but it just came as a shock to me as he's never seemed to do anything like that before.
Women ... soo sentimental.
I asked him about it and he said he looked coz he thought she was fit and only looks at stuff like that once a weekish.
and he said he looked coz he thought she was fit and only looks at stuff like that once a weekish. He shouldn't have said that!
I know thats hardly anything esp as im at uni so it must be hard for him but Im feeling jealous and upset now, he says he thinks of me when he pleasures himself and thats groovy
He shouldn't have said that!
butit just annoys me that hes looking at someone prettier than me, even though he says im really beautiful and sexy etc. i cant stop being jelous
He doesn't love you TBH. If I love someone, I'm faithful and off the porn ... as I am now.
Reply 3
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Dekota
Women ... soo sentimental.
He shouldn't have said that!
He shouldn't have said that!
He doesn't love you TBH. If I love someone, I'm faithful and off the porn ... as I am now.
He shouldn't have said that!
He shouldn't have said that!
He doesn't love you TBH. If I love someone, I'm faithful and off the porn ... as I am now.
He does love me! I know most blokes do look at it even when they have gf but just surprised me thats all.
Reply 4
Dekota
He doesn't love you TBH. If I love someone, I'm faithful and off the porn ... as I am now.
He doesn't love you TBH. If I love someone, I'm faithful and off the porn ... as I am now.
wtf?
what you do and how you act is totally different from person to person!Reply 5
Monkey_Maiden
He does love me! I know most blokes do look at it even when they have gf but just surprised me thats all.
Most do, some don't. If you get jeolous, you are better of finding the few who don't!
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wtf? what you do and how you act is totally different from person to person!
what you do and how you act is totally different from person to person!Generalises in the end.
Reply 6
Dekota
Women ... soo sentimental.
He shouldn't have said that!
He shouldn't have said that!
He doesn't love you TBH. If I love someone, I'm faithful and off the porn ... as I am now.
He shouldn't have said that!
He shouldn't have said that!
He doesn't love you TBH. If I love someone, I'm faithful and off the porn ... as I am now.
how can you say the guy doesnt love her?
faithful? all he was doing was looking a a fit celebrity. Big deal, hell i love my girlfriend more than anything but if a fit women was on the TV im not going to look away!
Reply 7
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i really wouldn;t mind if a a guy i was seeing watched porn,
are you jelous of his posters as well!! im sorrythat sounds insenistive comeing from a girl, but TBH with you i dn;t think you have anything to worry about, hes a guy right? guys like women, guy and PC, = porn!!
as long as they aren;t pleasuring other people (you should count yourself lucky there)!
blokes get jelous if we look at other guys in magazines and stuff, dont let it get the better of you!! rise above it and just forget about it!!
are you jelous of his posters as well!! im sorrythat sounds insenistive comeing from a girl, but TBH with you i dn;t think you have anything to worry about, hes a guy right? guys like women, guy and PC, = porn!!
as long as they aren;t pleasuring other people (you should count yourself lucky there)!
blokes get jelous if we look at other guys in magazines and stuff, dont let it get the better of you!! rise above it and just forget about it!!
Reply 8
... I didn't realise it was a celebrity! 
In that case your bf is a playa. Hats of to him.
In that case your bf is a playa. Hats of to him.
Reply 9
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Laursy
i really wouldn;t mind if a a guy i was seeing watched porn,
are you jelous of his posters as well!! im sorrythat sounds insenistive comeing from a girl, but TBH with you i dn;t think you have anything to worry about, hes a guy right? guys like women, guy and PC, = porn!!
as long as they aren;t pleasuring other people (you should count yourself lucky there)!
blokes get jelous if we look at other guys in magazines and stuff, dont let it get the better of you!! rise above it and just forget about it!!
are you jelous of his posters as well!! im sorrythat sounds insenistive comeing from a girl, but TBH with you i dn;t think you have anything to worry about, hes a guy right? guys like women, guy and PC, = porn!!
as long as they aren;t pleasuring other people (you should count yourself lucky there)!
blokes get jelous if we look at other guys in magazines and stuff, dont let it get the better of you!! rise above it and just forget about it!!
He doesnt have any guy posters hehe. think the only reason im jealous is that he totally hasnt done anything like this before and I cant help wondering he dont find me sexy anymore
but thats probabaly not it.Reply 10
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no i ment girl posters sorry, don't be silly guys brag about the postes and pictures they look at most of the time, its not real its a picture,
theres prob not much chance of meeting carmen eletra whatever her name is! but your his real girlfriend, i honestly don;t think there is anything to worry about you are just being paranoid about it!! (thats not ment to sound harsh)
theres prob not much chance of meeting carmen eletra whatever her name is! but your his real girlfriend, i honestly don;t think there is anything to worry about you are just being paranoid about it!! (thats not ment to sound harsh)
Reply 11
Laursy
no i ment girl posters sorry, don't be silly guys brag about the postes and pictures they look at most of the time, its not real its a picture,
theres prob not much chance of meeting carmen eletra whatever her name is! but your his real girlfriend, i honestly don;t think there is anything to worry about you are just being paranoid about it!! (thats not ment to sound harsh)
theres prob not much chance of meeting carmen eletra whatever her name is! but your his real girlfriend, i honestly don;t think there is anything to worry about you are just being paranoid about it!! (thats not ment to sound harsh)
Totally agree.
Reply 12
I think it comes down to the individual person. More insecure people will be upset and worried by things like that. I know I worry and get upset by things like that because of my insecurites about myself. So you aren't alone!
Reply 13
yer.. to be honest.. its proob just best to try and get over it... from my experiences... practically all.. if not all... of my friends who are guys (and thats most of my friends) look at/download porn... its just a guy thing.. doesnt mean he finds you any less attractive :P
Reply 14
he's probably looking at her right now...
Reply 15
Or imagines doing to Carmen what he's doing to you when you're both naked and excreting seminal fluids... ooh er!
And c'mon, no man masturbates to the same girl EVERY TIME he masturbates.
And c'mon, no man masturbates to the same girl EVERY TIME he masturbates.
Reply 16
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Hey i posted this coz I wanted some help and advice not things which will make me more jealous!
Reply 17
people have girlfriends they really love all the time and still watch porn. it doesnt mean anything. if it bothers you so much just record yourself masturbating with a camcorder and upload it onto his computer, so when you're not around he can use that instead.
Reply 18
11
well we are in a longdistance relationship so he might need some help lol
I didnt bug him i just asked about it the other guy and he got angry saying all guys look at it and i should stop being so paranoid
I didnt bug him i just asked about it the other guy and he got angry saying all guys look at it and i should stop being so paranoid
Reply 19
Monkey_Maiden
well we are in a longdistance relationship so he might need some help lol
I didnt bug him i just asked about it the other guy and he got angry saying all guys look at it and i should stop being so paranoid
I didnt bug him i just asked about it the other guy and he got angry saying all guys look at it and i should stop being so paranoid
yeh, i think your in the wrong for being negative about that. follow my advice in my previous post to help him out by giving him a hand
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