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Ant93
Is kissing cheating. whether it is just one kiss or lots of kisses. If it doens't involve any emotion, or sexual contact is it still cheating? This point has come up in several conversations i've had with my mates and i'm just curious to here what other people think.


Yes.
Reply 2
Ant93
Is kissing cheating?W hether it is just one kiss or lots of kisses. If it doesn't involve any emotion, or sexual contact is it still cheating? This point has come up in several conversations i've had with my mates and i'm just curious to here what other people think.


Yep, well i think so. However i don't think a quick peck on the lips/cheek is. It would have to be a full on kiss.

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Reply 3
i think cheating is going the full way with someone, if you get totally drunk and snog someone say for a laugh (i don;t do things like that i don;t drink anymore) then regret it the next day i don;t think that is cheating

however, going out of your way to go and kiss somoene else is cheating (sober and looking to do it purposely) also i think it depends on how you feel about the person you are kissing (you nay slate me and think im immature, thats my opinion)

kissing on the cheeks or a peck is no way cheating people do it all the time doesn't mean we are cheating on people otherwise everyone will be cheating on each other!!
I consider it cheating
Reply 5
If it’s a kiss on the cheek or literally a peck on the lips that’s fine. But if it’s a snog, then yes it is cheating whether it meant anything or not, Drunk or sober, it is still cheating.
Rules of cheating:

Its ok if:

Your in different states, or:

In the same state, but different postcodes.
Reply 7
I think yes.

If you are in a stable and loving relationship then why would you want to kiss someone else?

Just put yourself in the other persons place, and how would you feel about it?

In my opinion, just having the intention to is cheating enough.
Reply 8
yep i think its cheating- no question.
Why is it?

Love is about emotion, if its just physical cheating, thats no different to playing tennis with someone. Just physical enjoyment.
Reply 10
legbreakgoogly
Why is it?

Love is about emotion, if its just physical cheating, thats no different to playing tennis with someone. Just physical enjoyment.


so your tellin me if you had a girlfriend of a few years and she turned round to you and said i snogged this guy yesterday you would be fine with it?
I'd ask her the circumstances behind the incident.

I am a very reasonable guy.
Reply 12
legbreakgoogly
I'd ask her the circumstances behind the incident.

I am a very reasonable guy.


so in what circumstance is it ok for her to cheat?
there shouldnt be a circumstance,
for fun? surely she can have fun with you.
for excitement? if there is no excitement in the relationship she shouldnt be in one.
Reply 13
yes
willey
so in what circumstance is it ok for her to cheat?
there shouldnt be a circumstance,
for fun? surely she can have fun with you.
for excitement? if there is no excitement in the relationship she shouldnt be in one.


Imagine this exchange:

Gf: I kissed another guy

me: why?

gf: was caught in the moment.

me: what do i get in the way of compensation?

gf: head

me: deal

You can always reach a compromise.
legbreakgoogly
Why is it?

Love is about emotion, if its just physical cheating, thats no different to playing tennis with someone. Just physical enjoyment.
I'm sorry, but your attitude towards relationships is quite typical of someone young and inexperienced.
Or someone who was hurt badly, and so decided to change his approach.

See the last ferw posts of "cheating 1" thread.
Reply 17
ive been hurt much more badly then most people and i dont consider head as a fair trade of for cheating :rolleyes:
Why not?

I was hurt beyong repair, so i thought. Turns out it made me take up a less emotional POV. See "cheating thread" for details.
Reply 19
i cant find it