Are they having an affair?

Reply 20

AngelofnoColour

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14

trigger

true. Maybe drop a hint like you seem happy mum why's that? or Mr Y is coming round lots these days and laugh?

Yeah the second one is a good idea :smile:

you know, I know what I'm gonna do now, I'm gonna do some detective work and stuff. Probably go around tomy aunties next door and ask a few questions, shes a right bimbo and will say anything and then I will start on my mum. I'm also gonna come home earlier than usual from uni to see whats happening. But I will not confront them.
It just makes me so angry that if they are doing this, I love my dad, how could she treat him like this. :frown:

I have to find out.

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it does make it different if its your parents and it seems really unfair if your dad has been out of work. Good luck

Reply 23

legbreakgoogly

Exactly. I have much life experience.

Reply 24

AngelofnoColour

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lil_sweetie

Do your siblings think the same? If they don't suspect anything then I wouldn't mention it to them just yet, but if you all think the same, maybe you should all talk to your mother. Good luck x

I havent even spoken to them about it, theyre all young though, far younger than me. Although my sis was telling me once Uncles always around here now.

Reply 25

Laursy

10

I love my dad, how could she treat him like this. I have to find out

as harsh as it does sound you can;t help who you fall for!! some people have to do selfish things in order to be happy, however that is no excuse for it!, maybe it is best kept behind closed doors to prevent heartbreak and misery, but if you wanna put your mind at rest then try and find out, good luck xx!

Tell Lil' Zane.

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Laursy

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Thanks for letting me discuss this with you guys :tsr:

Reply 28

Trigger

18

maybe dective work is the answer it sounds harsh but if your mum is doing this its not fair on any of you

Reply 29

BlackHawk

17

Sorry I still don't think it's her business, even if it is her parents.

Yes, if she was 18 or under it would be.

But shes a grown woman and if there is something going on then her parents will say something when they are ready.

Going digging around for something that may not even be there will just get people hurt.

Reply 30

Laursy

10

oh i have no idea why i posted ??? sorry lol i was on the phone and did it automatically

what ever you do though, don't go it alone, let 1 person and only 1 person you now you can trust to support you (like a best friend, boyfreind,or someone else) who you klnow won't gossip. you cannot go though finding out something that devastating on your own esp if it all comes out and people find out, don't feel bad about suspecting it though!! its totally natural what else are you suppose to think other then that.

Reply 31

legbreakgoogly

BlackHawk

Sorry I still don't think it's her business, even if it is her parents.

Yes, if she was 18 or under it would be.

But shes a grown woman and if there is something going on then her parents will say something when they are ready.

Going digging around for something that may not even be there will just get people hurt.

Agree. You seem to talk sense.

Reply 32

AngelofnoColour

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14

BlackHawk

Sorry I still don't think it's her business, even if it is her parents.

Yes, if she was 18 or under it would be.

But shes a grown woman and if there is something going on then her parents will say something when they are ready.

Going digging around for something that may not even be there will just get people hurt.

But my siblings are all under 18 and cant I do it in their behalf? I know summit like this will oneday be found out if its happening and the last thing I want is my parents to break up, cos I know my lil brother will be effected most by it.
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Laursy

oh i have no idea why i posted ??? sorry lol i was on the phone and did it automatically

what ever you do though, don't go it alone, let 1 person and only 1 person you now you can trust to support you (like a best friend, boyfreind,or someone else) who you klnow won't gossip. you cannot go though finding out something that devastating on your own esp if it all comes out and people find out, don't feel bad about suspecting it though!! its totally natural what else are you suppose to think other then that.

I dont have a best friend or boyfriend.

Reply 33

Laursy

10

I dont have a best friend or boyfriend

if you feel ok about going it alone i suppose thats the best way of keeping it from getting out!!

i hope that it isn;t true i hate the idea of people being unhappy and sad!! good luck hun i hope everything works out!!

Reply 34

BlackHawk

17

It's your parents job to raise their children, not yours.

I know it sounds harsh but my parents went through the same thing.

Reply 35

AngelofnoColour

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14

He's here again :mad:

but chatting to my dad.

Reply 36

BlackHawk

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legbreakgoogly

Agree. You seem to talk sense.

I try sometimes, usually no one listens.

Reply 37

AngelofnoColour

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14

BlackHawk

I try sometimes, usually no one listens.

I listen

Reply 38

Bexxxx

14

If youre really concerned, i think you should have a word with your mum, maybe say youre worried about her and your dad arguing? But theres not much else you can do, if your mum is having an affair, then shes probably very mixed up emotionally, and perhaps a little support through hard times from you, showing her you all care, would help steer her the right way.

Good Luck - and it may just be your overactive imagination :smile:

Reply 39

AngelofnoColour

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14

L.J

but what are you gonna do if you find out that you're right?

I dont even wanna think about that, lol, I'll probably end up in here crying and asking what the hell shall I do.
I have my mobile phones voice recorder, my mp3 player's voice recorder, my dads dictaphone and my brothers phone's recorder and I'm gonna hide these in different places around the house tmrw morning when everyones gone away, it will just be my mum and me left. Then I go to uni for one hour, cos the rest of the lectures have been cancelled (reading week) and tell my mum I will be back very late, haha. But I'll turn up early. Y am I doing this? becos I know its my uncles day off tmrw. haha, evil plan.

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