Are they having an affair?

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i'd hate to be in your situation so much :frown:

sounds like a nightmare. i think you should keep quiet and do some Columbo work. cant be much worse than asking and nothings actaully going on.

Reply 41

AngelofnoColour

There's nothing new there, my whole life's a nightmare. I hope oneday I wake up from it.

Reply 42

xelprep

one good tell tale sign is if after you know the two people have been in the house, and you walk in and it smells like a cat house! :biggrin:

- keep us posted on how it goes.

Reply 43

AngelofnoColour

xelprep

one good tell tale sign is if after you know the two people have been in the house, and you walk in and it smells like a cat house! :biggrin:

- keep us posted on how it goes.

I have this urge to throw up now :puke:

Reply 44

bikerx23

its a Mr E

I'm so so sorry! i just couldn't resist!

Reply 45

xelprep

BlueAngel

I have this urge to throw up now :puke:

sorry

i forgot how personal the matter is. but that Is a way of doing detective work i guess :frown:

Reply 46

AngelofnoColour

xelprep

sorry

i forgot how personal the matter is. but that Is a way of doing detective work i guess :frown:

Its ok, no need to say sorry. :smile:

I'm open about everything, no matter how personal it is.

Reply 47

Trigger

xelprep

sorry

i forgot how personal the matter is. but that Is a way of doing detective work i guess :frown:

your only sorry becasue you got warning points for it :rolleyes:

Reply 48

xelprep

trigger

your only sorry becasue you got warning points for it :rolleyes:

no actually i got warning points for the reply you didnt see because its not there anymore. unless it was you

yep

I think you should talk to her, filming people without their knowledge is very very wrong.

Reply 51

AngelofnoColour

viviki

I think you should talk to her, filming people without their knowledge is very very wrong.

I cant talk to her, we arent really close and if I say anything to her, she turns it around into an argument and starts shouting at me. I rather not talk to her.

Reply 52

viviki

Thats really no excuse. What if you are wrong and they find the recording equipment and then you have to explain the whole thing they'd never trust you again.

Reply 53

AngelofnoColour

viviki

Thats really no excuse. What if you are wrong and they find the recording equipment and then you have to explain the whole thing they'd never trust you again.

I'd say Im doing a psychology experiment on summit, Im good at making excuses.

Reply 54

AngelofnoColour

I thought I'd update you with the latest - I planted the voice recorders around the house this morning when everyone left for school/work. My mum again started cooking early morning and singing in the kitchen, my mum and dad argued again before he left about money issues, and then I lied and told my mum I would be back in the evening and that I am expecting an important letter. Then after every hour I called the home phone, to see who would pick up, and who was in the background etc...
I found nothing!!!! I also was planning to come home early, but that didnt happen cos of some stupid trouble with the trains. The time I got home was the time for my mum to pick up the kids from school. Two of my voice reocrders could only record and hour each and I found nothing, and the rest, nothing!!!! Maybe I am just being paranoid here,but I will try again next week now. Got a day off tmrw!!!! :smile:

Reply 55

Jaetie

wow, this is my first time reading this thread and i really admire your courage to do this man.

Reply 56

AngelofnoColour

Jaetie

wow, this is my first time reading this thread and i really admire your courage to do this man.

I can do anything when I have the complete motivation to do it. Sometimes I have the desire to kill :p:

lol that came out wrong.

Reply 57

MNBStyle

BlueAngel

Right, I dont want to reveal who these people are, but theyre people who are close to me and I'm worried about them. Um, to make it more simple for me to write this lets call the couple Mrs X and Mr X (who have been married for more than 20 years and have kids) and then theres Mr Y (who is Mr X brother).

For awhile now, a couple of months I have been noticing that Mrs X is acting differently in personality wise, shes alot more happier and jolly and singing all the time, when she never used to. Her husband Mr X lost his job back in August and it effected their family loads (no money and stuff, cos Mrs X is a housewife). Infact both of them have been having loads of arguments and fights over debt, alcohol and in-laws and stuff and nearly got divorced at one point, but only stayed together cos of their children. Ok, so Mr X is currently working for his brother Mr Y who lives next door to them. At start he worked from home, but since the kids have been going to school, Mr Y has been sending Mr X to do work elsewhere all morning and afternoons every day of the weekday. Whenever I mention Mr Ys name to Mrs X, she gets a funny smile on her face and she's always talking about him. The other day I saw Mr Y leaving their house and I asked her what he was doing there and Mrs X told me that he just gave her Mr Xs wages. Also Mrs X has been spending loads recently on groceries and I dont know where she's getting the money from.
I dont know why, but deep down I have this feeling that they Mrs X and Mr Y are having an affair. They live next door to each other and stuff. Am I being paranoid here or summit? Its just Mrs X has changed loads and she always arguing with her husband. Please tell me, cos Im really worried about them. I was thinking of leaving a tape recorder at their house one day, to see who comes and goes. What do you think?

Love BlueAngel xxx

I think you may well be onto something, and i would suggest you keep a very close eye on it.