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Yes of course
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Yeah. Girls love gay guys, probably for this very reason.

I often wonder if gay guys can be just friends with other gays, same concept. Every one I've met has either wanted to screw me or won't speak at all because I don't reach their required level of attraction. I even know a guy who has a Twitter list of all the guys he had had sex with and none of them know that's what the list is. Apparently shagging people is how you get to know people these days. As a result gay clubs tend to be 75% straight females, 24% guys looking for a shag (who are each with 2-4 females and no guys) and 1% me.
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How stupid... Of course you can - two of my best friends are guys.
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(Original post by Beadle's About)
If there is sexual attraction there, better not to be 'just friends'. Better to be lovers, or not see each other at all....no sense hanging around being 'friends' with someone you fancy but who doesn't feel the same.
That's ridiculous imo. My closest friend is male and someone who I used to fancy, I got over it and now we have an amazing friendship with no sexual feeling on either side, I don't think of him in that way at all any more. There's no point avoiding someone just because you have feelings for them that you can't/don't want to act on.
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Yes. Of course they can. The idea that they "can't" is severely outdated.
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(Original post by ChopinNocturne)
That's ridiculous imo. My closest friend is male and someone who I used to fancy, I got over it and now we have an amazing friendship with no sexual feeling on either side, I don't think of him in that way at all any more. There's no point avoiding someone just because you have feelings for them that you can't/don't want to act on.
Well I don't get with girls to be friends. I'm looking for a lover. Pretending you want to be friends when really you are attracted to them and want them to be your lover is just fake and phony. Best to be honest about how you feel.
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