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girls cheat more than men nowadays!

well the stereotype has always tended to be more that guys go 'wayward' more often than women...

but nowadays i reckon actually it's women who are far worse n more likely cheat regardless of 'so called commitment'..

of course that doesnt mean most girls are like that..they are not, im just saying i think they are worse than guys more often now

..but im not talking from personal experience so far thankgod..

opinions of which gender is kinda worse when it comes to faithfulness?

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Reply 1
i think you are right, i have cheated on somone in the past, and someone has cheated on me!! well i didn;t get it confirmed i just suspected it!!

doesn't mean ill go through life being unfaithful , i admit it wasnlt the most mature thing to do!!
and i was totally stupid, but
Reply 2
Lucas
well the stereotype has always tended to be more that guys go 'wayward' more often than women...

but nowadays i reckon actually it's women who are far worse n more likely to cheat regardless of 'so called commitment'..

of course that doesnt mean most girls are like that..they are not, im just saying i think they are worse than guys more often now

..but im not talking from personal experience so far thankgod..

opinions of which gender is kinda worse when it comes to faithfulness?

I would say its a more 50 - 50 thing, but of course it all depends on experience.
Like if who cheats more often than who was to be based on males and females i know,
then it would be females cheating more often than males by a very large margin.
I personally dont understand the point of cheating at all (unless it was one of them drunken things or due to thinking your bf had cheated etc), surely if you feel the need to cheat you should iver,

1:Atleast try to sort things out with your partner first, then if it doesn't work out split up with them

2:If its really that bad then just split up with your partner

Then go and have as much fun as you like if or once you done one of these 2.
Its just so much easier and logical
Reply 3
I have to say I think that's actually true, but it could just be that I know that many more girls than blokes so I can't really tell.

Cxx
Reply 4
maybe it's because girls have more opportunity for sex. if a girl's willing, more often than not a guy will be willing. but if a guy's willing, the girl often won't be (generalisation, i realise). so maybe there are more guys who would cheat, but more girls who do. if that makes any sense.
Reply 5
The National Opinion Research Center at the University of Chicago published a survey in 1998. Their results were:

12 percent of women cheat
22 percent of men cheat

And the OP has such a delicate way of phrasing things - 'more than one dick entering them' - dear god...
Reply 6
Poica
The National Opinion Research Center at the University of Chicago published a survey in 1998. Their results were:

12 percent of women cheat
22 percent of men cheat

And the OP has such a delicate way of phrasing things - 'more than one dick entering them' - dear god...

Yeah but thats probablly just in america thoe, could be a totally different percentage over here
Reply 7
still thats american tho..kinda mean from UK
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grace
maybe it's because girls have more opportunity for sex. if a girl's willing, more often than not a guy will be willing. but if a guy's willing, the girl often won't be (generalisation, i realise). so maybe there are more guys who would cheat, but more girls who do. if that makes any sense.


i agree there actually..if a half-decent looking girl wanted a shag that night, it would not be hard for her to find it...however 'bit' more difficult for the vice versa situation to happen
Reply 8
Statistics vary widely, but according to one of the most recent and reputable studies, as many as 37 percent of married men and 20 percent of married women have been unfaithful.

From a UK site. Admittedly on marriage.
MNBStyle
Yeah but thats probablly just in america thoe, could be a totally different percentage over here


Yep, theres more American women that would like to cheat, are just too damn fat to get off the chair and cheat :biggrin:
Reply 10
olliemccowan
Yep, theres more American women that would like to cheat, are just too damn fat to get off the chair and cheat :biggrin:


lol haha harsh but perhaps has some truth to it
Reply 11
Poica is that Cloud in your avatar? :smile:

And yeah, in my experience girls do it more although a lot of my mates slept around and probably still do (not seen them for a while lol im in sheffield).

But yeah girls, you have to watch out for em hehe. I'm always faithful, and writing poems about special ladies :wink:
Reply 12
The "statistics" are presumably based upon men and women who admitted to cheating. It could be argued that due to women's nature they are less likely to divulge as to wether they have cheated or not, thus creating misleading results.

In my personal experience, of all of my friends over the past 6 years or so, women cheat a helluva lot more than men
Reply 13
Girls are due to the two X-chromosomes in there **** DNA.

:cool: We have the Y.
Lucas
well the stereotype has always tended to be more that guys go 'wayward' more often than women...

but nowadays i reckon actually it's women who are far worse n more likely to cheat regardless of 'so called commitment'..

of course that doesnt mean most girls are like that..they are not, im just saying i think they are worse than guys more often now

..but im not talking from personal experience so far thankgod..

opinions of which gender is kinda worse when it comes to faithfulness?


Although you could have put that more nicely, I somewhat agree.

The Independent had an article on research which suggests the idea that the average size of testicles depends on the degree of infidelity committed by women: gorillas have tiny ones because female gorillas are very faithful whereas monkeys have relatively big ones because of the attitude of the females.

Anyway, boring scientific research aside, I think that if girls knew that they could get away with it without anyone knowing, they would. A lot of women use sex for social promotion and learn to use sex to achieve goals. They don't seem to have the same amount of moral conscience as men.

It seems that most girls are mostly worried about the "slutty image" than a guilty conscience. Of course, there are loads of girls who do have a conscience! But it seems that there are a lot of girls who once they no longer care about their image, or once they're in a situation where they won't gain a "slutty image", then there's little that stops them from sleeping around.

Despite people going on about how unfair it is that men and women are perceived differently when they're behaving promiscuously, there's probably a reason why that system came to exist, other than male domination. We're simply not the same and have different behaviours (generally).
I think definitley us xxx
Reply 16
-TMG-
Poica is that Cloud in your avatar? :smile:

And yeah, in my experience girls do it more although a lot of my mates slept around and probably still do (not seen them for a while lol im in sheffield).

But yeah girls, you have to watch out for em hehe. I'm always faithful, and writing poems about special ladies :wink:


That is Cloud - watch Final Fantasy: Advent Children - tis beautiful!

Oh well, if I'm the only girl left in England with a moral conscience then so be it...I'd never ever cheat. It's the worst thing anyone can do.
Reply 17
Poica is it out in English yet though?

I really want to see it. I heard it's got most of Cloud's limit breaks on (Climhazzard etc) and that they look cool !!!!!!!! ahhhhhh lol

I'd get the Japanese version but it'd be crap havin to read AND watch all the action at the same time. I can't multi task :P

I just started playin FF7 again too, love that game :smile:
Reply 18
-TMG-
Poica is it out in English yet though?

I really want to see it. I heard it's got most of Cloud's limit breaks on (Climhazzard etc) and that they look cool !!!!!!!! ahhhhhh lol

I'd get the Japanese version but it'd be crap havin to read AND watch all the action at the same time. I can't multi task :P

I just started playin FF7 again too, love that game :smile:


Watched it in Japanese, I have to say, though I'll watch it again when it's out in English. It has got Climhazzard, which is pretty cool. The one thing it doesn't have is Cait Sith's doll body (though it does have the annoying cat - riding Red XIII for some reason)...
Don't give us a reason to stray away. Simple.