My mate who lives with me...

tell him he can't sleep in yoru room thats just weird. And also if I was his girlfriend and found out he'd be staying in your room I'd go nuts. You can do without the hassle.

Reply 2

Just tell him that you find it easier to sleep on your own and would appreciate it if he did too.

Or, you could tell his girlfriend that he is sleeping with you and wait for the fireworks.

Reply 3

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viviki

tell him he can't sleep in yoru room thats just weird. And also if I was his girlfriend and found out he'd be staying in your room I'd go nuts. You can do without the hassle.

but we really good mates and have had to in the past.
plus me and his girlfriend get along really well and dont think it would bother her... then again it would bother me if i was in her situation :redface:

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BlackHawk

Just tell him that you find it easier to sleep on your own and would appreciate it if he did too.

Or, you could tell his girlfriend that he is sleeping with you and wait for the fireworks.

i have done, just hoping he'l get the hint sooner or later!
i cant do that to him or his girlfriend, like i said before, not so sure it would bother her.

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kriztinae

but we really good mates and have had to in the past.
plus me and his girlfriend get along really well and dont think it would bother her... then again it would bother me if i was in her situation :redface:

well I'm not really the jealous type at all but I'd go mad if I found out my boyf was sleeping with another girl and I'd never believe it was platonic on both sides. Even if I trusted him I certainly wouldn't trust the girl.

Tell him you feel awkward about it because of the girlf.

Reply 5

Same here. Don't get jealous very often but I would go mental at Wzz if I found out he was sharing a bed with another girl.

I'd have a quite word with the gf if shes a good friend. Explain nothing goes on but you feel uncomfortable and don't kow how to tell him.

Reply 6

viviki

Are you sure he doesn't have a crush its very odd behaviour.

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viviki

Are you sure he doesn't have a crush its very odd behaviour.

im almost certain.
hes always been like that though he likes the attention us girls give him.

his girlfriend is trying to set me up with one of her mates :p:

Reply 8

Or maybe he's misplaced feelings for a parental figure and is looking for some sort of support?

Actually, that is kind of creepy.

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BlackHawk

Same here. Don't get jealous very often but I would go mental at Wzz if I found out he was sharing a bed with another girl.

I'd have a quite word with the gf if shes a good friend. Explain nothing goes on but you feel uncomfortable and don't kow how to tell him.

thats an idea...
if i say anything to him hes like oh dont be silly ....
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BlackHawk

Or maybe he's misplaced feelings for a parental figure and is looking for some sort of support?

Actually, that is kind of creepy.

nah dont think so... im a bit of a younger sister figure to him.

Reply 10

You'd be surprised....

I knew a girl who had misplaced feelings for her father. He abanoded her when she was little so she spent her life trying to place those feelings elsewhere. She'd go out with guys her age and a bit older but would act very childish around them.

It was VERY creepy.

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BlackHawk

You'd be surprised....

I knew a girl who had misplaced feelings for her father. He abanoded her when she was little so she spent her life trying to place those feelings elsewhere. She'd go out with guys her age and a bit older but would act very childish around them.

It was VERY creepy.

seriously?
well his parents are still there for him, he had a sister who passed away, but that was well before he was born and his parents never talk about it so it doesnt really affect him.

Reply 12

It just sounds like he may be missing something.

Why can't he spend a night alone? Why does he need that company and comfort? Whats he afraid of?

I'd be creeped out if any of my mates were acting this way.

Reply 13

Beekeeper

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Just put drawing pins around on the floor and wait for him to stand on them when he creeps in your room at 3am.

When he cries with pain you pretend you think its a burglar and beat him over the head with a pan...

Hopefully he will be detrerred from entering again anytime soon...

Reply 14

You could start having horrible nightmares and kick him to hell when you're 'asleep'. Then snore loudly, grind your teeth and drool on him. :wink:

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BlackHawk

It just sounds like he may be missing something.

Why can't he spend a night alone? Why does he need that company and comfort? Whats he afraid of?

I'd be creeped out if any of my mates were acting this way.

he jus likes the attention.
he tends to have low confidence as well
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Beekeeper

Just put drawing pins around on the floor and wait for him to stand on them when he creeps in your room at 3am.

When he cries with pain you pretend you think its a burglar and beat him over the head with a pan...

Hopefully he will be detrerred from entering again anytime soon...

he wouldnt sneak into my room! :rolleyes:

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BlackHawk

You could start having horrible nightmares and kick him to hell when you're 'asleep'. Then snore loudly, grind your teeth and drool on him. :wink:

haha thats an idea :biggrin:

but he's a bit of a heavy sleeper :redface:

Reply 16

kriztinae

he jus likes the attention.
he tends to have low confidence as well

Yes, but why?

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What's Chico Time Precious?

BlackHawk

Yes, but why?

thats just his personality!
when he was younger he was overweight and over the past year and a half he lost alot of weight and has been getting so much more attention from girls, more like all the time. so when he doesnt get it i think he feels wierd so tries to get it from his friends .... not in a bad way tho

Reply 18

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sounds like a real creep to me, obviously I don't know the guy but seriously...take a step back and stop looking at the situation through rose tinted glasses.
And the fact he has a girlfriend already, i'm sorry but it's completely overstepping the mark.

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