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Everytime my mate and I go out, he always talks me into pulling some gals coz its kinda boring if two blokes dance with each other all the time. But I just think it depends on the X factor coz gals might see approaching them that way is too forward. We hardly got any gals at the end of the night out, some just smiled, some even touched my bum and laughed off me, some danced intimately for 2 seconds and walked off to another guy, some winked and then shook their heads. Does that mean they're all drunk. What u guys think? What's the problem of having a kiss and dance a bit lustfully? Its just for fun
bravesoul
Everytime my mate and I go out, he always talks me into pulling some gals coz its kinda boring if two blokes dance with each other all the time. But I just think it depends on the X factor coz gals might see approaching them that way is too forward. We hardly got any gals at the end of the night out, some just smiled, some even touched my bum and laughed off me, some danced intimately for 2 seconds and walked off to another guy, some winked and then shook their heads. Does that mean they're all drunk. What u guys think? What's the problem of having a kiss and dance a bit lustfully? Its just for fun
Who knows? I do it all the time, tis fun
I dance 'lustfully' with men, women, railings, walls, DJ booths, you name it when I go out!!!
bravesoul
Everytime my mate and I go out, he always talks me into pulling some gals coz its kinda boring if two blokes dance with each other all the time. But I just think it depends on the X factor coz gals might see approaching them that way is too forward. We hardly got any gals at the end of the night out, some just smiled, some even touched my bum and laughed off me, some danced intimately for 2 seconds and walked off to another guy, some winked and then shook their heads. Does that mean they're all drunk. What u guys think? What's the problem of having a kiss and dance a bit lustfully? Its just for fun
Maybe they don't fancy you?
I'm not trying to be harsh, but if they don't know you and all you seem to want is a dirty dance/pull, then it might be a bit of a turn-off. Offer her a drink and a chat first, then ask if she wants to dance.
My friends and I are usually too busy drying humping each other ...
I'll have a joke around with guys when I'm out but I'd only actually pull someone if I found them attractive.
I'll have a joke around with guys when I'm out but I'd only actually pull someone if I found them attractive.
SophistiCat
I dance 'lustfully' with men, women, railings, walls, DJ booths, you name it when I go out!!!
Theres nothing wrong with teasing and flirting on the dance floor.
Mata
Maybe they don't fancy you?
I'm not trying to be harsh, but if they don't know you and all you seem to want is a dirty dance/pull, then it might be a bit of a turn-off. Offer her a drink and a chat first, then ask if she wants to dance.
I'm not trying to be harsh, but if they don't know you and all you seem to want is a dirty dance/pull, then it might be a bit of a turn-off. Offer her a drink and a chat first, then ask if she wants to dance.
Difficulty with that is it's often too dark/noisy to "get to know someone".
To bravesoul, maybe you just had one poorer night, but it might be better some nights. So long as you're having a good time. In a club all i want to do is dance 'lustfully'! And there is nothing wrong with having some fun.
sounds like ur trying a bit too hard m8!
Apparently, I just enjoyed the night with my mate but the thing is when I got a bit of Vodka or some pints I just cant help myself teasing gals and dance a bit lustfully so they might think I was intentional.
Once I said ' Hey gal, this is the bloody dance floor, what r u here for? chill out...'
The other night, at the student union's night , I think. I got a bit tipsy and got pulled by a chubby bird. She might have had 2 pints or some champagne before so she grabbed my neck and we had fantastic snog.
Cheers guys for ur posts
Once I said ' Hey gal, this is the bloody dance floor, what r u here for? chill out...'
The other night, at the student union's night , I think. I got a bit tipsy and got pulled by a chubby bird. She might have had 2 pints or some champagne before so she grabbed my neck and we had fantastic snog.
Cheers guys for ur posts
I'm in Sheffield. Tis good. You should go to corporation and not the union (well maybe Sheffield Union, I wouldnt know about that, but Hallam union is pooage).
I met my cute, sexy, smart, beautiful beauty of a girlfriend at Corporation. School night on Wednesdays. You should try it.
I was dancing VERY dirty with her too...she secretly likes it
hehe.
But yeah...I wouldn't try too hard...I mean I don't, I just have a laugh and 'dance' (term used very loosely, so loosely it doesn't mean what the convention, ie dictionary says). Perhaps you have to get lucky. I know I got lucky with Jade
*Swoons*
I met my cute, sexy, smart, beautiful beauty of a girlfriend at Corporation. School night on Wednesdays. You should try it.
I was dancing VERY dirty with her too...she secretly likes it
hehe.But yeah...I wouldn't try too hard...I mean I don't, I just have a laugh and 'dance' (term used very loosely, so loosely it doesn't mean what the convention, ie dictionary says). Perhaps you have to get lucky. I know I got lucky with Jade
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