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    Firstly, sorry for the thread topic. I know there have been lots of threads like this, but I've never posted in H&R before so I don't think I'm spamming! I'm just curious about whether a male friend of mine fancies me or not, and would welcome your views. The thing is, I don't tend to have as many male friends as female, so I could just be misinterpreting perfectly normal social signals which I'm not really used to. This mate of mine (I know him from the uni archery club), always talks to me quite a lot every session I go to, and in clubs he'll look at me alot (sometimes I think I catch him eyeing my chest or bum, but again I'm never 100% sure), dance close by; he's pinched my bum a couple of times. I don't encourage him in any way because I have a lovely boyfriend of over 11 months (which, incidently, this mate knows), and I don't think I'd fancy him even if I was single, but he still continues. Given that this bloke is naturally a fairly flirty person, do you think he fancies me? Like I said, there's not chance of me reciprocating, but I'd just like to know where I stand! Thanks in advance.
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    Given that I've never met either of you, and the vague description given of ambiguous gestures, I think I can unequivocally say "no".
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Given that I've never met either of you, and the vague description given of ambiguous gestures, I think I can unequivocally say "no".
    Well, they are ambiguous gestures, thats the reason I posted! How many guys out there would flirt with a girl they weren't at all attracted to? Thanks for your input though.
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    I can also say "NO". He may look at your butt and chest but all blokes that r straight do and if he dances up close to you on the dance floor he is proberly a. drunk and b.proberly jus havin a friendly joke!
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    Even if he does fancy you, does it really matter? You're happy in a relationship. Perhaps the reason he hasn't told you he fancies you is because he's aware of this.
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    (Original post by FrisbeeFan)
    I'm just curious about whether a male friend of mine fancies me or not, and would welcome your views.
    1) We don't know him on a personal level, hence we can't help.

    2) It is dependent on if you fancy me ...
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    Just don't be quick to make assumptions. I thought a girl really liked me - I ask her out, and it turns out she's been going out with one of my best friends. Thank Christ for whisky.
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    mmm jack daniels
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    (Original post by foxo)
    Just don't be quick to make assumptions. I thought a girl really liked me - I ask her out, and it turns out she's been going out with one of my best friends. Thank Christ for whisky.
    thats why you first get to become a good friend of the girl and make sure that shes free to get
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    (Original post by nasht)
    thats why you first get to become a good friend of the girl and make sure that shes free to get
    Oh, I was friends. Good friends. Really good friends. I'd been talking to her for weeks, been out with her and her friends, but I obviously read her wrong. This was yesterday I found out she'd been going with my friend, btw.

    I've drank a whole bottle of Jack Daniels and I'm started on the Bells now. But, as you can see, it doens't make you forget.
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    (Original post by Dekota)
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    2) It is dependent on if you fancy me ...
    Hehe. Nice one!
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    (Original post by ZigZag)
    Even if he does fancy you, does it really matter? You're happy in a relationship. Perhaps the reason he hasn't told you he fancies you is because he's aware of this.
    Yeah, I do get the feeling that if I was single he would make more of a move on me. I suppose it doesn't really matter, I was just curious and wondered where exactly I stood.

    I feel kinda silly now for posting a thread about something so trivial! But thanks anyway for your opinions people.
 
 
 
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