I'm 23 my mum still comes in my room upstairs without knocking despite knowing that it bothers me because she is always walking in when I'm getting changed. She goes through my bags, throws away stuff without asking and it does my head in. She says i abide by her rules or dont stay there but as soon as I have some money i will never stay at home again, I hate it, its well out of order and it doesnt change even if I pay rent.
Shes walked in on me showering when I had slight bruises in some er delicate places and she asked me how i got them. She has no idea.