so two and a half weeks ago me and my girl split up, because she goes to boarding school and only comes home at weekends, and is going away for a month in December. She thought it didn't feel right even though i could deal with it as i'm not too bothered, so it was pretty much her who really ended things. The last thing i said to her was that i respected that it was more circumstances that ended us, and that i wasn't particularly pissed off at her, but needed space for abit so i could move on.
Tonight was the first time i decided to get hammered since it ended, i made specific plans not to go to any bars she may be in, but low and behold she was in one of them. I was pretty drunk and acted like i didn't see her for abit. Could tell she saw me though. I was cornered in a position where that when it came to leave the bar i'd have to walk by her. When this time came i walked by with the intention of making ******** talk, but she was distracted so i just kept going.
Went on to the next bar and checked my phone, she'd sent me a text
"hey, i didn't wanna come up to you, but i hope you're ok and have a good night. Jan"
What the **** should i reply to that with. I suspect she may have her doubts about the choice she made, as during the breakup she kept saying she wasn't sure. I also heard she was upset about it from a mutual friend. But that message was not necessary. I'm trying to just keep my mind off her and move on, but that doesn't help. I dont want to act immature and ignore her. What is the best way to reply to that kind of message?
I've never been split up with before so its abit of a new thing to me and is not fun. [but maybe karma getting me back for the times i have split up with people]