youthful love - what a farce

self-deluded - thats me! It wasn't all manufactured mind you...i know for a fact ...i overheard her calling me 'sweet', glancing at me too, whatever that was about...i had misinterpreted things badly, never mind..

thanks for those comments, done my confidence wonders.

Maybe she had secretly tasted your skin at night and you tasted "sweet." See: there are many other plausible, reasonable explanations. Why didn't you think of them?

That's what I'm here for: to make others feel better about their crappy lives.

You make me sad.

I think the divorce rate would be a lot higher if people didn't date in their teens, cause they wouldn't know what a 'wrong' relationship was like and would just get married.

I agree, some people take it too far, with one boy/girlfriend straight after the previous one is gone. But in the end, it's useful life experience for us all.

NB. No, I am not one of these 'playas'. My current boyfriend is my first one and we'll have been together two years next month.

If you don't like it, don't read it.

Blimey...i'm probably in a bad mood right now because my department is just farcical in arranging very important things regarding my course, assessment....but...

so many cases here about love and relationships, whingeing on...i think some of you should consider yourself perhaps lucky that you are even in such a position to have that 'problem' - usually stupid trivialities anyway, "he/she says he/she doesnt love me anymoreeeee" boo hoo hoo You know, to outsiders it sounds pathetic...you know, some of these cases of lost-loves etc are 16-18 years of age - i dont want to go around being patronising, but that is incredibly young to feel so loved up...and im afraid im not suckered in to these frequent requests for the sympathy vote - next thing you'll hear, "yeah it was for the best...i'm over him/her, in fact i have a new gf/bf (whichever applies)". This love in youth is false, often manufactured due to peer pressure to be in at least some form of relationship...i think this youthful love is immature...this stupid pressure to be in something that "means something" - it probably only means something because it means that you are not the odd-one-out amongst your friends, i.e. girlfriend/boy friend less....i think young 'love' is very sad, and often, there really is no such thing, its just false and manufactured...

besides 40% of marriages, approx, end in divorce
love sweet love, they say.

sometimes going through teenage years, feeling especially insecure, you need someone to tell you how nice you look, or how wonderful you are. i dont think many people delude themselves when it comes to young love, well, i certainly dont.

it does annoy me when people cry about it, but well, its just a temporary stage people are at, a few years down the line, they see how crazy they were for taking love so seriously at such a young age, but there you go.

I think its hard for teenagers not to delude themselves - teenage relationships are pretty confusing. I have decided to wait until I'm older to try for a proper relationship, as I want to have an adult relationship with communication (hard to achieve with a teenage boy, no offence to any emotionally articulate teenage boys), monogamy, commitment etc.

So what are you doing in the mean-time? There is no point in planning anything, just go with the flow...

That's what I'm here for: to make others feel better about their crappy lives.

Blimey...i'm probably in a bad mood right now because my department is just farcical in arranging very important things regarding my course, assessment....but...

so many cases here about love and relationships, whingeing on...i think some of you should consider yourself perhaps lucky that you are even in such a position to have that 'problem' - usually stupid trivialities anyway, "he/she says he/she doesnt love me anymoreeeee" boo hoo hoo You know, to outsiders it sounds pathetic...you know, some of these cases of lost-loves etc are 16-18 years of age - i dont want to go around being patronising, but that is incredibly young to feel so loved up...and im afraid im not suckered in to these frequent requests for the sympathy vote - next thing you'll hear, "yeah it was for the best...i'm over him/her, in fact i have a new gf/bf (whichever applies)". This love in youth is false, often manufactured due to peer pressure to be in at least some form of relationship...i think this youthful love is immature...this stupid pressure to be in something that "means something" - it probably only means something because it means that you are not the odd-one-out amongst your friends, i.e. girlfriend/boy friend less....i think young 'love' is very sad, and often, there really is no such thing, its just false and manufactured...

besides 40% of marriages, approx, end in divorce
love sweet love, they say.

Blimey...i'm probably in a bad mood right now because my department is just farcical in arranging very important things regarding my course, assessment....but...

so many cases here about love and relationships, whingeing on...i think some of you should consider yourself perhaps lucky that you are even in such a position to have that 'problem' - usually stupid trivialities anyway, "he/she says he/she doesnt love me anymoreeeee" boo hoo hoo You know, to outsiders it sounds pathetic...you know, some of these cases of lost-loves etc are 16-18 years of age - i dont want to go around being patronising, but that is incredibly young to feel so loved up...and im afraid im not suckered in to these frequent requests for the sympathy vote - next thing you'll hear, "yeah it was for the best...i'm over him/her, in fact i have a new gf/bf (whichever applies)". This love in youth is false, often manufactured due to peer pressure to be in at least some form of relationship...i think this youthful love is immature...this stupid pressure to be in something that "means something" - it probably only means something because it means that you are not the odd-one-out amongst your friends, i.e. girlfriend/boy friend less....i think young 'love' is very sad, and often, there really is no such thing, its just false and manufactured...

besides 40% of marriages, approx, end in divorce
love sweet love, they say.

Have you been, DUMPED, recently? I found reading your comment hilairious, you're so bitter.

its just seems like all the topics are the same to me but posted by different members maybe there should be a sticky on;

how to tell if she/he really likes you
should you really be with him/her
blah blah

just my thought, i get bored of reading them.

I'm a sweet baby jesus.
Slypie......i was wondering why you were member of the 'wit' society?
You have this fantastic psychoanalysis talent slypie...care to share the secret?

What Irony; says she who herself has a crappy life.

Im positive woo hooooooooooooo. Thankyou unknown admirer/s - you don't know how long its been....since ive had... +ve points and that green little thing. I've worked so hard for that....

As for being an 'unknown quanity', ive posted 600 plus times and its taken me many hundred posts to become positive again!? Whan an absurd system it is..