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34 FF bra size, sick of all guys being obsessed about my boobs :(...
hi... I am a 17 yr old girl, size 8 and 34 FF breasts, and I am starting to get a bit fed up about that all boys focus on when they meet me is my boobs !
i hate wearing low cut tops , because that inevitably will attract alot of unwanted attention.
I am quite smart, and am a straight A student, so I would say I am quite interesting to engage in conversations, however, whenever a boy asks me out on a date, and we begin talking, I always tend to catch them staring at my breasts. F them!!! I never get a serious boyfriend!!
There was this once, me and one I thought was my best friend (he is a guy) went on hols together. We were best friends, and nothing romantic between us whatsoever. However,the second day of our hols something really terrible happened!
We had just been down at the beach playing volley ball together, and I went back to the hotel to get changed from my bikini. He went into his room, and I went into mine. I took off my bikini top since obv I did not expect anyone to walk in since the room was locked! However, my friend had the spare key card to my room, and he suddenly burst into the hotel room. I screamed at him telling him to get the f out ! but he just stood there staring at me !! I started crying hysterically and ran into the bathroom! Later that evening I went over to him asking wtf was wrong with him and why the f he did that , and he just answered that he couldnt take his eyes off my boobs... I never spoke to him again after that hols..
It isnt just that incident !! these things keep happening to me daily !! even strangers perv at my body !! It really disgusts me.
No one takes me seriously, and Ill never get a boyfriend who isnt obsessed with my body.. What about my mind???
SHould I cut my hair short and eat myself fat???? will that get me a serious boyfriend!!?????
Please give me some advice ? Really fed up...
i hate wearing low cut tops , because that inevitably will attract alot of unwanted attention.
I am quite smart, and am a straight A student, so I would say I am quite interesting to engage in conversations, however, whenever a boy asks me out on a date, and we begin talking, I always tend to catch them staring at my breasts. F them!!! I never get a serious boyfriend!!
There was this once, me and one I thought was my best friend (he is a guy) went on hols together. We were best friends, and nothing romantic between us whatsoever. However,the second day of our hols something really terrible happened!
We had just been down at the beach playing volley ball together, and I went back to the hotel to get changed from my bikini. He went into his room, and I went into mine. I took off my bikini top since obv I did not expect anyone to walk in since the room was locked! However, my friend had the spare key card to my room, and he suddenly burst into the hotel room. I screamed at him telling him to get the f out ! but he just stood there staring at me !! I started crying hysterically and ran into the bathroom! Later that evening I went over to him asking wtf was wrong with him and why the f he did that , and he just answered that he couldnt take his eyes off my boobs... I never spoke to him again after that hols..
It isnt just that incident !! these things keep happening to me daily !! even strangers perv at my body !! It really disgusts me.
No one takes me seriously, and Ill never get a boyfriend who isnt obsessed with my body.. What about my mind???
SHould I cut my hair short and eat myself fat???? will that get me a serious boyfriend!!?????
Please give me some advice ? Really fed up...
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Get a breast reduction? 
You have learn to live with it.
I have to deal with similar stuff.
It will get you down every now and again but just remind yourself that you are more than your boobs.
I have to deal with similar stuff.
It will get you down every now and again but just remind yourself that you are more than your boobs.
The only thing you can really do is to make sure you have the right size bra, try bravissimo lol x just wear tops that play down your boobs, and work them girl! Many women would kill for what you have, and I know that's not what you want to hear but it's true.
Also, if you are an interesting intelligent girl like you say, I'm guessing that even though guys may initially notice you because of your boobs, they may stay for the brain
Good luck x
Also, if you are an interesting intelligent girl like you say, I'm guessing that even though guys may initially notice you because of your boobs, they may stay for the brain
Good luck x
My personality is so horrifically 'big' that it takes attention off my boobs between my friends and I.
Random guys, you can't do anything about. I NEVER have my boobs out, but people still say stuff to me in the street and things.
You just can't let little things like that hurt you, otherwise most things will make you feel down.
I think your personally your personality needs to outweigh the boobs, because atm it just seems like that you're that girl with the boobs.
Random guys, you can't do anything about. I NEVER have my boobs out, but people still say stuff to me in the street and things.
You just can't let little things like that hurt you, otherwise most things will make you feel down.
I think your personally your personality needs to outweigh the boobs, because atm it just seems like that you're that girl with the boobs.
Yer, not really attracted to huge boobs, but a lot of guys are, I'd change my mentality and just enjoy it, at least you get a greater pick among guys, talk to the ones you're interested in, ignore the rest. Even the smart decent guys like boobies too 
, you have that on your side (well your front 
) so just try to enjoy it
, you have that on your side (well your front ) so just try to enjoy itOriginal post by Anonymous
No one takes me seriously, and Ill never get a boyfriend who isnt obsessed with my body.. What about my mind???
SHould I cut my hair short and eat myself fat???? will that get me a serious boyfriend!!?????
Please give me some advice ? Really fed up...
Hmm maybe stop for a minute and realise that you are only 17 and that people grow up. And its hardly the worst thing in the world having people think you are attractive, id like to see you be ugly for the day. Im pretty sure you wouldn't complain after that
Original post by Anonymous
No one takes me seriously, and Ill never get a boyfriend who isnt obsessed with my body.. What about my mind???
Why do you think these things are mutually exclusive? I'm obsessed with my gf's body.
I used to have massive tits too. But then I lost weight and lost them. to be honest I dont envy you OP as men didnt take me seriously when I had them and used to treat me like I was easy meat rather than girlfriend material. I would wear a minimising bra and wear modest tops if I were you. But if you dont want to hide away and wear what you want to wear I don't blame you. Inner strength hun. Inner strength.
(edited 13 years ago)
Original post by Pinball_heart
My personality is so horrifically 'big' that it takes attention off my boobs between my friends and I.
Random guys, you can't do anything about. I NEVER have my boobs out, but people still say stuff to me in the street and things.
You just can't let little things like that hurt you, otherwise most things will make you feel down.
I think your personally your personality needs to outweigh the boobs, because atm it just seems like that you're that girl with the boobs.
Random guys, you can't do anything about. I NEVER have my boobs out, but people still say stuff to me in the street and things.
You just can't let little things like that hurt you, otherwise most things will make you feel down.
I think your personally your personality needs to outweigh the boobs, because atm it just seems like that you're that girl with the boobs.
yes ! thats exactly how I feel! Thanks for great advice !
Original post by Anonymous
hi... I am a 17 yr old girl, size 8 and 34 FF breasts, and I am starting to get a bit fed up about that all boys focus on when they meet me is my boobs !
i hate wearing low cut tops , because that inevitably will attract alot of unwanted attention.
I am quite smart, and am a straight A student, so I would say I am quite interesting to engage in conversations, however, whenever a boy asks me out on a date, and we begin talking, I always tend to catch them staring at my breasts. F them!!! I never get a serious boyfriend!!
There was this once, me and one I thought was my best friend (he is a guy) went on hols together. We were best friends, and nothing romantic between us whatsoever. However,the second day of our hols something really terrible happened!
We had just been down at the beach playing volley ball together, and I went back to the hotel to get changed from my bikini. He went into his room, and I went into mine. I took off my bikini top since obv I did not expect anyone to walk in since the room was locked! However, my friend had the spare key card to my room, and he suddenly burst into the hotel room. I screamed at him telling him to get the f out ! but he just stood there staring at me !! I started crying hysterically and ran into the bathroom! Later that evening I went over to him asking wtf was wrong with him and why the f he did that , and he just answered that he couldnt take his eyes off my boobs... I never spoke to him again after that hols..
It isnt just that incident !! these things keep happening to me daily !! even strangers perv at my body !! It really disgusts me.
No one takes me seriously, and Ill never get a boyfriend who isnt obsessed with my body.. What about my mind???
SHould I cut my hair short and eat myself fat???? will that get me a serious boyfriend!!?????
Please give me some advice ? Really fed up...
i hate wearing low cut tops , because that inevitably will attract alot of unwanted attention.
I am quite smart, and am a straight A student, so I would say I am quite interesting to engage in conversations, however, whenever a boy asks me out on a date, and we begin talking, I always tend to catch them staring at my breasts. F them!!! I never get a serious boyfriend!!
There was this once, me and one I thought was my best friend (he is a guy) went on hols together. We were best friends, and nothing romantic between us whatsoever. However,the second day of our hols something really terrible happened!
We had just been down at the beach playing volley ball together, and I went back to the hotel to get changed from my bikini. He went into his room, and I went into mine. I took off my bikini top since obv I did not expect anyone to walk in since the room was locked! However, my friend had the spare key card to my room, and he suddenly burst into the hotel room. I screamed at him telling him to get the f out ! but he just stood there staring at me !! I started crying hysterically and ran into the bathroom! Later that evening I went over to him asking wtf was wrong with him and why the f he did that , and he just answered that he couldnt take his eyes off my boobs... I never spoke to him again after that hols..
It isnt just that incident !! these things keep happening to me daily !! even strangers perv at my body !! It really disgusts me.
No one takes me seriously, and Ill never get a boyfriend who isnt obsessed with my body.. What about my mind???
SHould I cut my hair short and eat myself fat???? will that get me a serious boyfriend!!?????
Please give me some advice ? Really fed up...
At this age guys are always going to be pretty...interested in them but it'll get a bit better as you get older. That is, they'll learn to be more subtle about it and other things will be important to them. You'll need to get used to them always being a source of attraction though I'm afraid.
Back when I was your age (ouch) I knew a girl like you with similar issues. She made it clear that she was interested in someone who liked her for reasons other than her mammary glands - guys who went for them were firmly told where to go.
I guess it comes down to the usual sensible relationship advice - don't expect true love from going clubbing (where everyone will just try and grab them), build up a relationship through common interests and attraction first and only let the guy get to that stage once you both like each other for other reasons too.
The obvious thing here is that...your big boobs arent the reason why you dont have a serious bf, blunt but true.
I know girls who are similar to your size and have/had long term bf's.
Look around and try out different tops and clothes that flatter your body without revealing much.
There's nothing wrong with short hair...and I really cant imagine the top half your body (even if you are a size 8) looking very slim with big boobs..unless you are very tall...so putting on weight may not be a good idea..especailly if you're happy with the way you are/ you may even go up a bra size.
Hope you feel better... You're only 17, so i dont think you should be thinking about breast reductions.
I know girls who are similar to your size and have/had long term bf's.
Look around and try out different tops and clothes that flatter your body without revealing much.
There's nothing wrong with short hair...and I really cant imagine the top half your body (even if you are a size 8) looking very slim with big boobs..unless you are very tall...so putting on weight may not be a good idea..especailly if you're happy with the way you are/ you may even go up a bra size.
Hope you feel better... You're only 17, so i dont think you should be thinking about breast reductions.(edited 13 years ago)
hold a notes folder or a large book in front of your chest area when talking to guys
Original post by PortiaLovesMcqueen
Of course she is.
why would u say that ? I just want some advice and hear if anyone else is in my position! There is no need being insensitive
! U clearly have no idea how it is to be in my position... I am not moaning btw, but after 3 yrs of being this size, am starting to get slightly annoyed with the type of guys I attract !Great for u if u dnt have the same problems
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