Telling someone you're not interested... after pulling them Watch

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This is a really simple question, but I just wanted to see what people here think...

I pulled a rather attractive guy last night and I'm pretty sure he wanted to go home with me, but I was too drunk and tired to do anything and just wasn't really that interested. He's just text me now basically asking how I am etc.

I'm not interested in pursuing anything further with him, though - not looking for fun or a relationship or anything. It was a spur of the moment pull.

So how do you tell someone you're not interested? In my case: give him the signal by ignoring his text, or be upfront about it and just tell him I had a nice time but I'm not interested in anything at the moment
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Personally I'd just be direct and tell him I'm not interested. Ignoring him may compel him to send you more texts.
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Be honest and tell him you're not interested in anything at the moment. Do not lie.
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If you ignore it he will probably try a few more times then call its better to just send him a text saying "I was drunk when I met you, I'm not interested in you whilst sober, sorry.
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Just don't reply. He's a guy. He'll lose interest soon enough. That way you don't have to feel bad either.
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Don't keep him hanging, tell him you're not interested in a relationship and prefer sleeping around with random men.
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If you're sure, just tell him you don't feel that way or aren't interested. Best to be honest.
I have the same issue...I slept with someone the other day, I did like him or thought I did anyway... only to have it make me realise just how much I want to be with someone else I have recently been with, who probbaly doesnt want more. Oh, isnt life complicated sometimes!
Good luck anyway, I ranted abit there!
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