Feel like I'm annoying everyone I talk to

Do many of you often get like this? I have so many things I'd like to talk about but never can and the thoughts just stay there for ages- it gets very frustrating. Firstly, I'm very shy. Actually, I don't have any friends. I used to, and I still keep trying, but no-one ever finds me interesting for more than a day or two partly because I'm very quiet and partly because no-one cares. Everyone talks to me like I'm about 12, even the people my own age but really, I'm 18. It's the same at home. No-one else in my family is quiet but even still, I'm more comfortable around them- I look forward to the weekends when my older sister gets home from uni so I can finally talk to someone, but she's always too tired now and will be too bored of me after a few sentences. I hate the way I can't have a conversation with someone without feeling like I'm annoying them or that they'd rather be elsewhere. No-one I know shares my interests but it's not like I go off on endless discussions about those things anyway- it doesn't matter what I say, no-one cares. I can't talk to anyone about the things that bother me because I'd only be burdening them- most of my 'friends' don't have a clue about my homelife etc. They just see me as the quiet girl who's sort of there but I probably don't mean anything to them, and likewise my family probably couldn't name any of my friends- if I mention them, no-one's listening anyway, they've got more important things to talk about. It's just annoying- I pay full attention to them, I help them when they need it, I listen when they're discussing the things they care about, I remember things about them. No-one ever seems to do it in return and I'm getting tired of trying. I really dislike being this lonely all the time.

Jesus, do you ever stop taking? You are so annoying!!!!



You asked for it OP.




Oh and also, why are you telling us this? What do you want us to say? Stop being annoying! Get a hobby!

Sorry. I don't know. I just felt like telling someone and I know that that's silly. I don't know how to stop being annoying- that's the problem.

Jesus, do you ever stop taking? You are so annoying!!!!



You asked for it OP.




Oh and also, why are you telling us this? What do you want us to say? Stop being annoying! Get a hobby!

Do many of you often get like this? I have so many things I'd like to talk about but never can and the thoughts just stay there for ages- it gets very frustrating. Firstly, I'm very shy. Actually, I don't have any friends. I used to, and I still keep trying, but no-one ever finds me interesting for more than a day or two partly because I'm very quiet and partly because no-one cares. Everyone talks to me like I'm about 12, even the people my own age but really, I'm 18. It's the same at home. No-one else in my family is quiet but even still, I'm more comfortable around them- I look forward to the weekends when my older sister gets home from uni so I can finally talk to someone, but she's always too tired now and will be too bored of me after a few sentences. I hate the way I can't have a conversation with someone without feeling like I'm annoying them or that they'd rather be elsewhere. No-one I know shares my interests but it's not like I go off on endless discussions about those things anyway- it doesn't matter what I say, no-one cares. I can't talk to anyone about the things that bother me because I'd only be burdening them- most of my 'friends' don't have a clue about my homelife etc. They just see me as the quiet girl who's sort of there but I probably don't mean anything to them, and likewise my family probably couldn't name any of my friends- if I mention them, no-one's listening anyway, they've got more important things to talk about. It's just annoying- I pay full attention to them, I help them when they need it, I listen when they're discussing the things they care about, I remember things about them. No-one ever seems to do it in return and I'm getting tired of trying. I really dislike being this lonely all the time.

I know the feeling OP. Why don't you write your thoughts in a diary,online or not? And if you have interests that no one else shares,try getting involved on forums and talk to other people about them or join a club if it's that kind of an interest like sport,reading etc.