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    big girlie night out means become a lesbian does it?

    no joke, what does that phrase mean?
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    (Original post by jordanv)
    big girlie night out means become a lesbian does it?

    no joke, what does that phrase mean?
    Erm...usually going out drinking with your female friends?! Nothing to do with lesbianism!
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    (Original post by Laursy)
    not being nasty or anything but is there a point in doing that the whole idea of gettin over things is not to dwell on things id get straight out there and force myself to have a fun time, laugh and joke around withpeople who are important not crying myself into a tissue about some bloke!!
    Yes, there is a point - or at least for some people. I find if I'm upset then deliberately trying to be cheerful, laughing/watching fun films etc will just make me worse because I'll know they're not helping and it's just too forced. It's natural to want some time to "mourn" for the relationship and for him, and trying to act normal is just completely fake in that case and won't deal with the issues underlying that need to be dealt with. Different things work for different people, but I think that sometimes letting yourself be truly upset for a couple of days (after all, it is a very sad thing that has happened!) is better than trying to persuade yourself you're happy really when you know you're not.
 
 
 
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