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Is it cheating to have webcam sex with another girl?

I only get to see my gf during the weekends and sometimes I got bored and horny without her, and so fool around with a friend of mine. She's doesn't live here so it's all online and I wouldn't do it in real life. So is that wrong or cheating. I am not actually dating this online girl and we only use each other for fun.

Reply 1

MovingOn

10

Yes, both cheating and wrong.

Reply 2

Maths Freak!!!

1

Yes it is. You, dirty boy couldn't you wait untill your gf came on the weekend. YOU SEX PEST!

(edited 13 years ago)

Reply 3

dee-bee1994

No it's fine... tell your girlfriend I'm sure she'll be totally cool with that... she might even want to join in

btw what's your skype?? :tongue:

Absolutely cheating.

Yes. Or put it this way, it would hurt your girlfriend if she knew.

Reply 6

Davezk

12

Why would you want to?

Ask your gf to send you naughty pics or just look at porn like everyone else... until you get to see your gf anyway

Reply 7

*Lollo*

8

Yes, it's wrong. If you have to go online, just use porn as most people. You've already chosen to be in a relationship where you see each other so little, so if you can't handle it you need to be with someone else or find another arrangement. I'm pretty confident your gf wouldn't be comfortable with your cybersex.

Reply 8

Mr C Back

1

Original post by Anonymous

I only get to see my gf during the weekends and sometimes I got bored and horny without her, and so fool around with a friend of mine. She's doesn't live here so it's all online and I wouldn't do it in real life. So is that wrong or cheating. I am not actually dating this online girl and we only use each other for fun.

Dont do it, just dont. Think of what your girlfriend would think. Dont be mean man :frown:

EDIT, dude i am thinking and actually it is awful of you to do that man. Your in a relationship for godsake, your in it becuase you like/hopefuly love her and if you really cared about her you would never do that. Would never consider doing that behind my girlfreinds back.

(edited 13 years ago)

Reply 9

Vinchenko

11

Original post by Anonymous

I only get to see my gf during the weekends and sometimes I got bored and horny without her, and so fool around with a friend of mine. She's doesn't live here so it's all online and I wouldn't do it in real life. So is that wrong or cheating. I am not actually dating this online girl and we only use each other for fun.

It's ok if, and only if, your gf is fine with it. If she's not, then it is wrong and it is cheating.

Reply 10

Cirsium

19

What is cheating?

Cheating is doing anything that you know would hurt your partner, to the extent that you wouldn't tell them you were doing it, or expect them to be okay with you doing it.

So to some people nothing short of full blown intercourse is 'cheating' - or even that's okay, if it's an open relationship - while to many even kissing is a step too far. There's emotional cheating too, if you share an intimacy with another person that would make your partner uncomfortable.

So is it wrong? Of course it's wrong.

Is it cheating? Would you tell your girlfriend you were doing it and expect her to be totally laid back; to not feel hurt; to think it was no big deal? You can only answer that about your own personal relationship, but something tells me you wouldn't...

Reply 11

Alexandra1234567

15

Would you be happy if she was doing it with a male friend of hers?

Would it upset her if she found out?

These are the things to consider here, which is easier to answer than whether it's technically 'cheating' or not.

Reply 12

Anonymous #1

OP

Hold on so watching porn is ok? Surely this is just a more interactive type of porn tailored to my needs and hers.

Reply 13

tazarooni89

20

If you have to ask "Is this cheating?" then it probably is.
If you don't think it's cheating, you won't mind telling your girlfriend about it then? :rolleyes:

Reply 14

tpowertj

Its pretty weird to be honest...

Reply 15

linkdapink

15

I always think in these situations that the best advice would be "would your girlfriend be happy if she knew?" and if the answer is NO then you're wrong. Another one is "would you do it with your girlfriend watching you?"...

Reply 16

Anonymous #1

OP

Oh and I won't tell her so she won't be upset XD

Also by people's logic pretty much everything is cheating if I don't want my gf to know. I don't want her to know a lot of things, but that's normal!

Reply 17

Walter Ego

12

No, and could you provide a link to the webcam involved please ?

Reply 18

Casshern1456

18

Original post by Anonymous

Hold on so watching porn is ok? Surely this is just a more interactive type of porn tailored to my needs and hers.

In porn you cannot find the girl performing the acting and there is no connection between you, just purely visual.

Reply 19

Anonymous #2

Original post by Anonymous

I only get to see my gf during the weekends and sometimes I got bored and horny without her, and so fool around with a friend of mine. She's doesn't live here so it's all online and I wouldn't do it in real life. So is that wrong or cheating. I am not actually dating this online girl and we only use each other for fun.

Just out of interest - does the girl you're doing stuff online with know you have a gf? I've been doing stuff online with a friend of mine who I thought didn't have a gf but i JUST found out that he has a gf that he only sees on the weekends..

Anyways, I think it is cheating!

Is it cheating to have webcam sex with another girl?

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