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Is it a big deal now? i have a mate who is a virgin but tells every1 (not close mates0 that she has wild sex with bf. is it that 'un cool' to be a virgin now a days i no this is controversal but i just wondered cos surely it dont matter you are still a person weather u have had sex or not.?

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(Original post by Nicci_babe)
Is it a big deal now? i have a mate who is a virgin but tells every1 (not close mates0 that she has wild sex with bf. is it that 'un cool' to be a virgin now a days i no this is controversal but i just wondered cos surely it dont matter you are still a person weather u have had sex or not.?

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Of course it isn't a big deal. It will happen at some point, that is almost a certainty these days. I can understand lying about it, but that is only because of the social acceptance factor
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I've never seen what the big deal is either way. You have sex before marriage so what? you don't have sex till your 30 so what?
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I've never seen what the big deal is either way. You have sex before marriage so what? you don't have sex till your 30 so what?
yeah exactly i dont know y people lie and we all know she lies cos she says things that cant possibly be true, but her other mates arn't so i think it is just acceptance yet it is weird just wanted different opinions of it really.
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I've never seen what the big deal is either way. You have sex before marriage so what? you don't have sex till your 30 so what?
Thats about it. It really is nothing to get worked up about, if you're really curious, just watch a few teen flicks and in there you will find vivid descriptions. Sex is over rated, love is something else, but that is harder to come across than sex.
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Thats about it. It really is nothing to get worked up about, if you're really curious, just watch a few teen flicks and in there you will find vivid descriptions. Sex is over rated, love is something else, but that is harder to come across than sex.
i wasnt looking for a vivid desciption thank i just wanted to know peoples view on virginity i dont wanna know who has and hasnt had sex
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i wasnt looking for a vivid desciption thank i just wanted to know peoples view on virginity i dont wanna know who has and hasnt had sex
Sex is okay, if it's with someone you love (or you're just wasted).
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Sex is okay, if it's with someone you love (or you're just wasted).
That isn't something I'd ever thought would have come from you Mr White. Diverse, very diverse.
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Sex is okay, if it's with someone you love (or you're just wasted).
Lmfao you legend.
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That isn't something I'd ever thought would have come from you Mr White. Diverse, very diverse.
Let him speak if he has another side to his acadamian work life he is a more rounded person
*sarcasm*
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Let him speak if he has another side to his acadamian work life he is a more rounded person
*sarcasm*
Of course I'll let Mr White speak. Hard to stop the great ones from speaking, hard not to take heed of what is said.
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I'm 17, and I'm proud of being a virgin! I'm sure there are a few people who can "fall in love" while they're still at school, but I don't agree with the other few million teenagers who just have sex for the sake of it and don't really give a damn who they're doing it with.... :rolleyes:

Anyway, that's just my opinion...
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i think people should wait, there are faaaar too many people that do it just to be ahead of their friends, trust me, that isnt the way to do it
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Theres no big deal about having had sex or being a virgin. It made no difference to my life and i hope it doesnt to any1 elses either, because it shudnt.
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I'm a virgin but depending on how I feeling at the time...I could do it...

There was a boy at work who I kissed while on break (and he turned out to be a handy kisser ) and he took my hand and led me to the staff toilet and locked the door. I thought that was going to be it and I was totally up for it except instead of asking if I did want to...he asked me to go down on him.

I have never gone down on anyone and I was too nervous I just froze...I would have slept with him but I couldn't do something I wasn't completly sure I could do.
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That isn't something I'd ever thought would have come from you Mr White. Diverse, very diverse.
Haha, you should know by now that very few things I say are actually serious.
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i think people should wait, there are faaaar too many people that do it just to be ahead of their friends, trust me, that isnt the way to do it
true, i remember in yr 9 (i was about 14?) and this lad walked in (having lost his virginity the night b4) feeling well proud of himself. Next thing you know all his mates did it just because he had done it. It ended up that in our class we had a group of guys and a group of girls that had all had sex with each other(girls with boys)....just because they thought it made them look better than the rest.
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There was a boy at work who I kissed while on break (and he turned out to be a handy kisser ) and he took my hand and led me to the staff toilet and locked the door. I thought that was going to be it and I was totally up for it except instead of asking if I did want to...he asked me to go down on him.
Heh, it's probably best that you didn't - I never could have pictured you as the type of person who sucks off guys in public toilets. Seems like an unlikely preconception.

He sounds like a prick, anyway.
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Haha, you should know by now that very few things I say are actually serious.
*nods* Sire knows. Sire pays keen attention to many things
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I think everybody should wait until their married and focus on their careers!!!
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