is it ok for a 19 year old guy to date a 16 year old girl? Watch

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legal
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depends if she's hot or not
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No. Stop being weird and date girls your own age.
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Half your age plus seven rule.

19/2 +7 = 16.5

Just about as long as she's going to be 17 soon.
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Perfectly fine.
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Some may think it's weird, but others will think it's cute. Depends how you really feel i suppose
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its ok....as long as you find the conversation weird. I mean she is in school and you in college. That has got to be a bit weird.
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Yes it is perfectly fine. Any 2 people who are both capable of mating should do so if they wish. Ignore any society influenced replies. They are subjective and bias.
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Borderline, but just about ok...
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I stated dating my bf when i was 16..He was 19, i'm still with him a year and half later! He's 21 today! (i'm still 17 yet o.o)
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Yes. And you shouldn't ask for validation from people. If you are both happy with it and on a similar emotional level the age makes no difference.
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I think it's perfectly normal. If you were 30 and she was 27, I don't think anybody would say it's weird.

Just that, since you're 19 and she's 16 now, she's more of a kid still in a way and you're more of young grown up, that will be spoiling her in eyes of parents I guess.

In my personal opinion it's fine.
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Yes, it's perfectly fine.
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i'm 17 and seem to attract older guys (by older i mean like 20... same guy who liked me when he was 19 and i was 16) but i'm 18 soon and his birthdays in december so maybe it's not that weird. its fine between us though like i get along better with guys who are more mature for some reason so i think if personalities match and you dont actually feel like there's an age difference, then it's acceptable.
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age aint nuttin but a number.
its fine 4 a 19 old guy to date a 16 yr old chick but not vise versa ... LOL
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yes
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Legal, but wouldn't there be abit of a problem, I mean what would they have in common... she could still be in high school.....and what happens when he wants to go clubbing or something?
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Several studies have stated that girls tend to mature faster than blokes, so I suppose dating a younger girl is fine.
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im 17 (18 in october) and my boyfriend's turning 21 in june. I don't really see what the big deal is - boys aren't as mature as girls anyway and i find most guys my age are still going out partying/drinking/onenightstand-ing and still treating all girls like a piece of meat. As long as your happy then there's no problem - but the fact you have posted this makes me think you yourself think its weird...
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