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i dont get it. theres a guy i work with who shows alll the signs of fancying me, he even took me on a drinks 'date' last month and bought all my drinks etc, he touches me occasionally and tries to impress me etc etc, but he keeps mentioning his 'girl' who is in fact his wife.

i was shocked when i found out and dont plan on talking to him again. why is he doing this? when he mentions her, he goes on like he would never ever cheat on her/want to break up his family. wears a wedding ring aswell. it's so confusing.

weird.
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He's a wannabe player.
Leave him alone.
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Trying to seem inaccessable, and play you as it were.
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maybe, and this is gunna be hard to comprehend, he sees you as a friend?
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I know a guy who is JUST like this. If I didn't know any better, I'd think he likes me but then suddenly he'll mention his girlfriend. It's confusing.
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(Original post by f00ddude)
maybe, and this is gunna be hard to comprehend, he sees you as a friend?
no, we barely 'talk' as such. mostly work related. hes too shy around me. then he tells me random stories inc his gal
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He wants a 'bit on the side' and is just making it clear so there so there's no mix up later on.
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What a bait guy.

Stop talking to him.
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HA,
Had a response all set up until I read that the girl was his wife..
He's either talking about his wife to make you jealous because he plans to get with you, or he's talking about her a lot because maybe he thinks that you like him, and so he wants to make it clear he's married.
Whatever the case may be, stay clear.
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(Original post by Keith Lemon)
What a bait guy.

Stop talking to him.
'bait guy'..?!~
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(Original post by jthlm)
I know a guy who is JUST like this. If I didn't know any better, I'd think he likes me but then suddenly he'll mention his girlfriend. It's confusing.
damn confusing ey?
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Yeah, bait guy, pretty obvious what he's after...

Just don't give it to the ********.
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damn confusing ey?
Haha yep, I'm just keeping my distance.
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There's this guy and we spent some time together at the start of uni and now he's started to see someone on his course. The weird thing is, after not spending time with me and fobbing me off. I asked if he could help me with some writing, so he came over and did so. The other day, he asked to spend some time with me, which we did and it was really nice, however, there was 'tension' and in unnecessary moments, he would throw in this girls name, after a while, I got 'urgh' of it and said I was gonna head off, since then, he's been really sweet to me but is still seeing this other girl, what is going on?! I don't know what to do - I am in no way going to disrespect myself or this other girl, I just need some clarity?
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