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    (Original post by Dekota)
    Maybe this is the case .. she always had a soft spot for me, and cared and defended me in many things.

    But the reason I think otherwise is mainly because, she doesn't normally talk to me directly and never makes eye-contact with me, unless needed ~ hmmm.
    Is she a shy girl? I'm normally not too shy in person, but if I like a guy (although sadly its been AGES since i've been in this scenario lol) I find it a little harder to make eye contact. Girls are generally like that
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    (Original post by Poison Ivy)
    Because we should be facing his dilemma not what they thought, if he don't care niether should we!
    meh :p:
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    (Original post by psycho(logist))
    JUST tell her it doesn't matter anymore because you don't care about the girl.

    You need to let her know that there isn't anyone else in the picture, otherwise if she does fancy you now, she won't soon, thinking that it's not worth it to like a guy who has his heart set on someone else.
    I think basically, she feels sorry for me.

    And for that reason, there is no way possible that she will ever fancy/go out with me .
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    (Original post by Dekota)
    Hmmm. I can aswell, but then, she might get a bit upset? ...
    No way! If she's crazy maybe she'd get upset? Actually she might like that :rolleyes:
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    (Original post by Poison Ivy)
    Oh and Dekota here's a great big hug from me!:hugs:
    Aww sweet :p: :hugs:
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    (Original post by psycho(logist))
    Is she a shy girl? I'm normally not too shy in person, but if I like a guy (although sadly its been AGES since i've been in this scenario lol) I find it a little harder to make eye contact. Girls are generally like that
    agree, shes probaly just shy and took the oppotunity to chat to you @ the trip
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    (Original post by Dekota)
    I think basically, she feels sorry for me.

    And for that reason, there is no way possible that she will ever fancy/go out with me .

    lol what are you basing that on?? Why would she feel sorry for you... there's no reason for her to... right?
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    (Original post by psycho(logist))
    Is she a shy girl? I'm normally not too shy in person, but if I like a guy (although sadly its been AGES since i've been in this scenario lol) I find it a little harder to make eye contact. Girls are generally like that
    I've not liked anyone for aaaaaaaages either!

    Dekota if you've only chatted to her for a hour maybe you SHOULD get to know her it's better to do that than anything else, becasue if she wasn't what you expected then itll break your heart again.
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    (Original post by psycho(logist))
    Is she a shy girl?
    I told her on that night, that I'm shy etc. and she also said she's shy but I don't think she is, because normally she's talking to other people, answering questions in class, 'socially advanced'.

    I'm normally not too shy in person, but if I like a guy (although sadly its been AGES since i've been in this scenario lol) I find it a little harder to make eye contact. Girls are generally like that
    Could be, but normally I can even feel it if someone feels something like that for me, but this one I'm not sure.
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    (Original post by Poison Ivy)
    I've not liked anyone for aaaaaaaages either!

    Dekota if you've only chatted to her for a hour maybe you SHOULD get to know her it's better to do that than anything else, becasue if she wasn't what you expected then itll break your heart again.
    Good point! If you don't know her all that well and are already making threads about her... :p:

    Poison Ivy: it's seriously been almost 2 years for me now. I think there's something wrong with me... maybe my biological clock has finished ticking :laugh:

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    (Original post by Dekota)
    I told her on that night, that I'm shy etc. and she also said she's shy but I don't think she is, because normally she's talking to other people, answering questions in class, 'socially advanced'.


    Could be, but normally I can even feel it if someone feels something like that for me, but this one I'm not sure.
    Yeah some girls are tricky like that though. :rolleyes:

    If she's normally "socially advanced" and with you seems shy... that should be like an alarm going off. Girls that normally aren't shy but act shy around you - this doesn't require much interpretations, nor can there be various misleading reasons.

    She vaannnts yooouu

    oh by the way, when was the last time you talked/what did you talk about/was it awkward?
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    Biological clock I should be the one worried it's bee three yrs and not liked anyone and just waiting aroun for somone
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    (Original post by Dekota)
    I told her on that night, that I'm shy etc. and she also said she's shy but I don't think she is, because normally she's talking to other people, answering questions in class, 'socially advanced'.


    Could be, but normally I can even feel it if someone feels something like that for me, but this one I'm not sure.
    maybe she only chats to other people a lot and socially advanced is that they talk to her first? Why not you make the first move and talk to her when you see her again, then maybe she'll open up more?
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    (Original post by psycho(logist))
    She vaannnts yooouu
    :rofl:
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    (Original post by Poison Ivy)
    Dekota if you've only chatted to her for a hour maybe you SHOULD get to know her it's better to do that than anything else, becasue if she wasn't what you expected then itll break your heart again.
    She's actually a different religion to me, which makes a significant difference, makes it harder aswell.

    In that one hour she was really trying to get to know me better, she asked ...
    how many siblings I had, date of birth etc. that is possibly something...

    Tell me this; could this all be some sort of psycho-analysis technique she was using on me, to see how good of a psychiatrist she is? (she studies psycho)
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    (Original post by Dekota)
    Do they really not posess any psychic powers? Meaning even a little bit, in the sense that when a guy fancies her, she knows that he does without him having to tell her...
    Dekota, I think I know a little about you...considering.

    Firstly, stop faking who you are. You deserve a slap for that.
    Secondly, you could try letting the girl know who you really are, instead of your concocted personalities all the time.
    Thirdly, yes girls do have sixth senses.
    Fourthly, stop trying to "flirt" with many girls at once, but pick one.
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    (Original post by Poison Ivy)
    Biological clock I should be the one worried it's bee three yrs and not liked anyone and just waiting aroun for somone
    It's because we have unusually high standards, that's wot.
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    (Original post by SketchyCanvas)
    maybe she only chats to other people a lot and socially advanced is that they talk to her first? Why not you make the first move and talk to her when you see her again, then maybe she'll open up more?
    I can see this just now .. me walking up2 her tomorrow and saying hey, and she'll be like 'do I know you?'
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    (Original post by Dekota)
    I think basically, she feels sorry for me.

    And for that reason, there is no way possible that she will ever fancy/go out with me .

    Well, just be her friend first and foremost, and see how things progress.
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    (Original post by Dekota)
    She's actually a different religion to me, which makes a significant difference, makes it harder aswell.

    In that one hour she was really trying to get to know me better, she asked ...
    how many siblings I had, date of birth etc. that is possibly something...

    Tell me this; could this all be some sort of psycho-analysis technique she was using on me, to see how good of a psychiatrist she is? (she studies psycho)

    :eek: She's a psychiatrist?!? How old is she, like 30??
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    (Original post by Dekota)
    I can see this just now .. me walking up2 her tomorrow and saying hey, and she'll be like 'do I know you?'
    awwww she wont think that! From what you have said about her being really talkative and asking you loads of questions about you..etc she'll remeber you straight up! And then you get the convo starting
 
 
 
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