About girls 2 ...

ferrus

In truth the expectation is that to begin with, at least the first 6 months you DO lie -or at least present only one side - about your personality

But why?

Reply 5

Dekota

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Poison Ivy

Because they want honesty that's why girls get irritated if lied to(this is my personal opinion!!)

Say if the guy is a complex character who hasn't a very distinct personality, rather a flexible one. And he's always quite and shy in classrooms for a whole 2 years, but suddenly one day, the guy opens up a bit and he's like a completely different person ... What would the girl observing this big change, think?

Reply 6

El Scotto

15

I really hate all fake people, whats the point.

theres nothing wrong with pretending to be more confident than you are though if you're first meeting someone, everyone does it, but to continue being fake, they'll see through you.

Girls aren't of a different world by the way?

ask yourself the question, and think about the sensible answer, and that'd be probably right.

Reply 7

Dekota

Say if the guy is a complex character who hasn't a very distinct personality, rather a flexible one. And he's always quite and shy in classrooms for a whole 2 years, but suddenly one day, the guy opens up a bit and he's like a completely different person ... What would the girl observing this big change, think?

that you have become more confident and more comfortable within yourself.

Reply 8

Dekota

Say if the guy is a complex character who hasn't a very distinct personality, rather a flexible one. And he's always quite and shy in classrooms for a whole 2 years, but suddenly one day, the guy opens up a bit and he's like a completely different person ... What would the girl observing this big change, think?

Was it you? lol!

Hmmm.....I'd think "wow"! but I normally go for quite shy guys and this would probably put me off.....

Reply 9

was it a sudden burst out of no where?

Reply 10

Dekota

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xemilyx

that you have become more confident and more comfortable within yourself.

Obvious, and yes the guy is me. But say if I'm shy most times, and then I open up one day, but the next day, I'm completely different etc.

What then?

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xemilyx

was it a sudden burst out of no where?

It happens a lot to me. :redface:

Reply 11

wow you are very complex. similar to how i am. she will probably be concerned and worried, probably wondering why.

Reply 12

I'd be confused about who you really are or I'd ask if you're ok if say y'day you were lively etc

Reply 13

sorry for stating the obvious lol :p:

Reply 14

It happens a lot to me. :redface:

How do you mean and can you think why?

Reply 15

Icy Ghost

Dekota

Say if the guy is a complex character who hasn't a very distinct personality, rather a flexible one. And he's always quite and shy in classrooms for a whole 2 years, but suddenly one day, the guy opens up a bit and he's like a completely different person ... What would the girl observing this big change, think?

If the guy is like "a completely different person", this might not be the kind of person the girl liked in the first place, and they'd get pretty pissed off about that. However, if they just became a bit more confident, without changing their personality overall, then the girl would probably not get pissed at him.

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La Trampa

18

yes they get irritated and annoyed because you're lying and because when we're having troubles trying to have perfect personalities and be who we r in front of you (because guys naturally have expectations) u're lying.her feelings would definately change because u'd been lying n she'd find it hard to trust whatever u say n that will put a strain on the relationship be it friends or more...

Reply 17

Dekota

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My 'change' of personality/character is due to lack of things (friends etc.) so I keep changing to try to find the 'optimum' character if you see what I mean.

Reply 18

Dekota

My 'change' of personality/character is due to lack of things (friends etc.) so I keep changing to try to find the 'optimum' character if you see what I mean.

but you shouldnt have to do it, thats decieving so many people. people should like you for you. who are you? do you even know your self? you should have to be that insecure.

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