Hah, time to join the masses asking for advice on this here forum!
Right - here is the story:
First met girl about one and a half years ago. Talked for about 5 minutes, realised she was very similar to me. Then went separate ways.
Half a year ago, she added me to MSN. Have been talking at least twice a week on MSN, often rather late - wasn't quite sure where it was leading. Now it just so happens that we have now gone to the sam Uni (though different college - she's on the other end of town)
Came to uni, met up with her once or twice - got on well, sp asked her out to the cinema. Went fairly well, was good fun, was beginning to think we were slightly more than friends. About a week later she asked me if I wanted to go see a film with her. Went to see that and all was good - I was beginning to think there was something there. Next week I asked her to go to the Cinema again (yeah yeah, boring I know). She said that she was going to see the same film with her friend, but he probably couldn't due to work - and asked if it was alright he he could come along if he finished his work. This seemed alright to me - I mean, it's a bit harsh to suddenly tell your friend you can't go because you are going with somebody else, so I said that was alright.... and then she mentioned that this friend was actually her boyfriend.
BOOM! CRASH!
Damn!
I'm sure she didn't have a boyfriend before coming to uni. Have I been beaten to it? Is it all going disasterously wrong? Have I misinterpreted the signs?
It would appear so...
I'm now rather pissed off with myself, and wondering what I'm going to do about it, if anything. Any ideas? I think maybe I should've been a bit quicker... I dunno
BTW: Went to the cinema with her, and without her boyfriend, and we seemed to be closer than then at any of our last meetings... weird.