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This person is driving me bonkers!

Right, hello to everybody. I don't usually post about my personal life outside of academic stuff..but what do people think to this?
Anyway, this person is a boy, and he likes my close friend. She does not want a relationship with him yet he still continues to text her constantly. It is really strange because at college he just does not talk to her hardly. Online he relentlessly asks me questions about her, & it is getting to the stage where he is obsessive. She has made it clear she does not want a relationship because of other factors in her life. He just does not understand this. What's more, he's clearly a womaniser, and is always on about other girls to me, so I think he would treat her badly anyway.

That's not the only thing. He is do damn disrespectful to me. I don't know what to do. Like last week, we had an argument about something, and he just would not back down even though I gave him the hard facts and evidence. He just said I was oversensitive. Everything I suggest is either "gay" or "f*** that" and he does not realise he is doing or acting in such a way. Anyway, today he implied I don't have a life which is complete rubbish...I was on about buying a laptop instead of a car when I pass and he said "f*** both of those, get a new hobby too, like go to the gym". I mean, what is his problem?

Is it just me or is this guy a complete idiot? I've heard him tell my friend that I'm just oversensitive...but it really feels like he's so an ignorant prick. Oh yeah he was on about Oxford to me, one of those typical narrow - minded people, he said "can't have any fun there". Do you think he's just really insecure?

Wow, sorry this is long. Anyway to cut it short 1) is it just me? & 2) what on earth is his problem?

Lol, Gemx
Reply 1

Sounds like a moron, why waste your time speaking to him?
Reply 2

best plan too, the way I look at things, why should I waste my time speaking to someone who isnt even pleasant to me?
Reply 3

what you want to do, is get a big stick, wrap some double sided sticky tape on the end then go out into a field somewhere and pull it through some brambles, so you've got a nice spikey stick, then thwack him with it every time he disrespects you or is horrible to you. He might then start to associate stinging pain with being a moron and then might stop!!

Whats sheffield like do you know much about it?

I'm thinking either wolverhampton or shefield but i've never been to either.
Reply 4
I've never been to Sheffield. But, all of my friends have told me it is brilliant there, lot's of nightlife. Clean city and the uni is meant to be really cool & apparently it's one of the safest and cheapest cities in the country! I need to go up on an open day. It's just I don't know if Sheffield is my first choice :biggrin:. What are you going to study?

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I am not even going to speak to the prick again! Forget it. He thinks he is god's gift.
:vroam: That's what I'd do!

Why are you still talking to him anyway? If he's disrespectful, rude and you're not even friends...why bother?
Reply 6
gemma.....
I've never been to Sheffield. But, all of my friends have told me it is brilliant there, lot's of nightlife. Clean city and the uni is meant to be really cool & apparently it's one of the safest and cheapest cities in the country! I need to go up on an open day. It's just I don't know if Sheffield is my first choice :biggrin:. What are you going to study?

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I am not even going to speak to the prick again! Forget it. He thinks he is god's gift.



I want to study psychology, peferably with philosophy.
gemma.....
I've never been to Sheffield. But, all of my friends have told me it is brilliant there, lot's of nightlife. Clean city and the uni is meant to be really cool & apparently it's one of the safest and cheapest cities in the country! .


sheff IS ace....come see it and be prepared to fall in love


except the buses arnt cheap :frown:..thats the only thing i dont like
Reply 8
Ooh, don't tempt me:wink: I'll see how my other uni's go! But Sheffield seems a definite possibility! Ooh expensive buses:redface: Nevermind! I walk loads anyway:O!
Reply 9
gemma.....
Right, hello to everybody. I don't usually post about my personal life outside of academic stuff..but what do people think to this?
Anyway, this person is a boy, and he likes my close friend. She does not want a relationship with him yet he still continues to text her constantly. It is really strange because at college he just does not talk to her hardly. Online he relentlessly asks me questions about her, & it is getting to the stage where he is obsessive. She has made it clear she does not want a relationship because of other factors in her life. He just does not understand this. What's more, he's clearly a womaniser, and is always on about other girls to me, so I think he would treat her badly anyway.

That's not the only thing. He is do damn disrespectful to me. I don't know what to do. I think he is nice at times. Like last week, we had an argument about something, and he just would not back down even though I gave him the hard facts and evidence. He just said I was oversensitive. Everything I suggest is either "gay" or "f*** that" and he does not realise he is doing or acting in such a way. Anyway, today he implied I don't have a life which is complete rubbish...I was on about buying a laptop instead of a car when I pass and he said "f*** both of those, get a new hobby too, like go to the gym". I mean, what is his problem?

Is it just me or is this guy a complete idiot? I've heard him tell my friend that I'm just oversensitive...but it really feels like he's so an ignorant prick. Oh yeah he was on about Oxford to me, one of those typical narrow - minded people, he said "can't have any fun there". Do you think he's just really insecure?

Wow, sorry this is long. Anyway to cut it short 1) is it just me? & 2) what on earth is his problem?

Lol, Gemx

He sounds very immature to me
Reply 10
He is an immature prick. I bet he goes to the gym...to compensate for something hehe. I don't go to they gym, nothing to make up for :wink:

Anyways just ignore him, like stay away from him and your friend should too. Good for you if you get into Oxford. And Sheffield too, my geilfrund is there.