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Overcoming obsessions!!

Basically, I have just broken up with my boyfriend and was really ready to become young, free and single for a while... however, I have already developed a crush on this other guy! He's lovely and has told me he likes me too, however has a girlfriend so can't do anything about it at the moment... Even so, I've already started to obsess over him (I'm a Scorpio.. blame the stars!!) and it's doing my head in!

Does anyone have any tips on how to just be happy on your own? It's like I always have to be 'into' someone, which is really annoying and energy consuming to be honest! Also, I reckon the happier I am on my own, the more attractive I will be to him and any other people I may like in the future! :biggrin:

What do guys reckon? Advice and comments greatly appreciated...
Reply 1

"however he has a girlfriend and can't do anything about it at the moment"

so either hes going to split up with his girlfriend? OR he should be split up with his girlfriend! I'd hate to be going out with someone when all I wanted to do was get busy elsewhere.

Singles fun, not having to worry about anything is great! just go out with your friends a lot! and when ya get horny, go on the pull : )
Move on...he's taken. Is he really worth it enough to cause hurt and upset to other people? Being young, free and single is way more fun! :biggrin: