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    Ok so I met this girl at a club once and it ended with us spending most the night on each others face, I then got her number and asked her out for a drink. Since then we've been out twice and the first time I spent the night at her flat (although nothing happened). I also saw her again at the same club we met and had the opportunity of drunken sex round her flat, however for reasons I can't remember, it never happened. Anyway the two times we've been out it's seemed more like we were friends then a couple, we never really kissed at all. Mostly because I'm crap with girls and I never know when and how to initiate a kiss. I like her and I'm fairly sure she likes me because at the end of our second date she said she wanted to see me again. I think we're both free Wednesday night and I was considering cooking dinner for her round mine (because I can't afford to do anything else). Any tips and advice would be awesome.
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    You want to cook for her? I don't understand, aren't you a guy?
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    That's nice

    Well, it sounds like she's interested so just be forward and ask her what she wants from the situation e.g. is she looking for a relationship or just a casual ting?

    If she does, cool, if she doesn't, ask if you can just **** like bunnies. Everyones a winner.
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    Grow a pair of balls and kiss her, if she doesn't respond, then sorry it ain't happening.
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    (Original post by DiZZeeKiD)
    That's nice

    Well, it sounds like she's interested so just be forward and ask her what she wants from the situation e.g. is she looking for a relationship or just a casual ting?

    If she does, cool, if she doesn't, ask if you can just **** like bunnies. Everyones a winner.
    ting :rofl:

    sorry....
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    Cybergrad is right.. adn Yawn11.. Girl loves guys who can cook for them.
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    (Original post by Yawn11)
    You want to cook for her? I don't understand, aren't you a guy?
    I don't understand? Men have had their fair share of being top of the world in cooking.
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    (Original post by Steph90)
    ting :rofl:

    sorry....
    lols. I know, it's like tourettes, it just happens....
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    Yeah I know I need to man up and just kiss her, however I feel like I've never had the chance. As well as being too nervous about ****ing it up or something. If I can get her round my house on Wednesday, after eating we'll probably watch a film or something. Seems the best opportunity then, if I don't cower out. Damn I wish I had the confidence I have when drunk all the time.
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    It seems like she's attracted to you, and likes you as a person, so I reckon you have a good chance!
    But the longer you leave it, the more chance there is you'll get friendzoned or she'll meet someone else... So go for it!
 
 
 
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