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Hi

I was wondering whether it would be better to text a girl or call a her?

I met this girl at the club last night and managed to ask for for her number. She gave it me and it was a real number, as her phone rang. But the trouble is I saw other people hit on her ( at least 4 other guys). But the trouble now is that I don't know what to do next.

What should I talk to about?
Do you think she will remember me?
Is it ok to call her 2 day later?
just incase some one else gets in the first, as I busy working tonight.

thanks
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She gave it me and it was a real number, as her phone rang.
Bad experience bro?
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Ok firstly, just because 4 other guys hit on her, doesn't mean she is/was interested in them. I would say, text her instead of calling - but then I'm a bit weird and don't really like phone conversations, especially with someone I don't know well. And incase she doesn't remember you, it would save an awkward ten minutes of you trying to get her to remember who you are. So yeah, text.
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(Original post by superman Zog)
Hi

I was wondering whether it would be better to text a girl or call a her?

I met this girl at the club last night and managed to ask for for her number. She gave it me and it was a real number, as her phone rang. But the trouble is I saw other people hit on her ( at least 4 other guys). But the trouble now is that I don't know what to do next.

What should I talk to about?
Do you think she will remember me?
Is it ok to call her 2 day later?
just incase some one else gets in the first, as I busy working tonight.

thanks


Text. Calling would be a bit too random
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Ok firstly, just because 4 other guys hit on her, doesn't mean she is/was interested in them. I would say, text her instead of calling - but then I'm a bit weird and don't really like phone conversations, especially with someone I don't know well. And incase she doesn't remember you, it would save an awkward ten minutes of you trying to get her to remember who you are. So yeah, text.
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Also, I hope you aren't planning on asking her out straight away?! Just ask her how the rest of her night was and something you were talking about. Standard stuff really
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i'd text her, it's a bit more casual and i hate talking on the phone.
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text, but i wouldn't ask her out immediately, ask how she is and about her day etc and then drop a hint like oh was nice to meet you like to do it again sometime. that way its a lot more subtle
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How do you know she hasn't been giving her number out to other guys? ...
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I would say text much easier and also you can have a conversation before you ask her out.
Having a phone conversation with a random guy would be just awkward.

Good Luck
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(Original post by superman Zog)
Hi

I was wondering whether it would be better to text a girl or call a her?

I met this girl at the club last night and managed to ask for for her number. She gave it me and it was a real number, as her phone rang. But the trouble is I saw other people hit on her ( at least 4 other guys). But the trouble now is that I don't know what to do next.

What should I talk to about? See below
Do you think she will remember me? Yes
Is it ok to call her 2 day later? Yes
just incase some one else gets in the first, as I busy working tonight.

thanks
I feel that texting is just too impersonal for me.

What should you talk about?

You: “Hey this is superman Zog, we met the other night at ***** and you gave me your phone number so I thought I would give you a call. My friends and I sure had a great time although I probably drank too much as we closed the place down and went for breakfast at ******. Didn’t get home until **AM and then crashed until **PM. How did your night go?”

Her: ******************************** **********

You: “Was wondering if you would like to go out sometime this week and if so would like to know what day/time would be convenient for you.

Her: “Day/time”

Best wishes,
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How do you know she hasn't been giving her number out to other guys? ...
cus I saw her, give at least another number, she was dancing with a few guys.
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cus I saw her, give at least another number, she was dancing with a few guys.
Yeah thats what I said! You still want to go out with her even though she hands out her number to other guys....
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Its been 3 days now, still haven't texed her. Been hesitating to much. cus I don't want to blow it. But I'm this late, I think I have already blown it. Bet some dudes already got in there.

well just going to do it now.
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Yeah thats what I said! You still want to go out with her even though she hands out her number to other guys....
Yes, I do, I thinks she fit. To be honest I've never been out with a girl, I'm 28.

First time in ages I went up to a girl and ask for her number. I kind of stumbled but still got her number. Too loud to have much of a coinversation, Before she said I have to go back to my friend. didn't think it went to well that night.
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